Am I overdoing it with weekly romantic gestures?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend and I are currently long distance and she’ll be moving here in about 6 months.

Since Valentine’s Day, I started doing something small every Sunday night — I make her a digital card with a message, some photos and music, and she opens it on Monday morning.

At first she really loved them and would react a lot. But the last couple of times I noticed she didn’t seem to go through the whole thing.

I’m starting to wonder if I’m overdoing it or if it’s becoming repetitive.

I still like doing it because it feels personal, but I don’t want it to lose meaning or feel like “too much”.

Do you think I should keep doing it every week, or slow it down?

[MsJayne]

That's a lovely romantic gesture, but yeah, maybe she's finding it a little overdone, or maybe she's just taking it for granted. Easter's about to happen, you could use Easter Sunday as an interruption to the pattern, that way it won't come across as you suddenly stopping the Sunday night ritual and having to explain why. 

[Anonymous]

14 minutes ago, MsJayne said:

That's a lovely romantic gesture, but yeah, maybe she's finding it a little overdone, or maybe she's just taking it for granted. Easter's about to happen, you could use Easter Sunday as an interruption to the pattern, that way it won't come across as you suddenly stopping the Sunday night ritual and having to explain why. 

Yeah, I was thinking the same… maybe it’s not about doing it that often...