James63 Posted February 25 Posted February 25 There's a girl in my (19M) class that I'm interested in. However, she's always with two other girls. How do I ask her out in this scenario? Should I just go up to them, introduce myself and make small talk. Then ask to pull her aside where I ask her out to coffee or something? We haven't talked besides me complimenting her hair.
Sony12 Posted February 25 Posted February 25 14 minutes ago, James63 said: There's a girl in my (19M) class that I'm interested in. However, she's always with two other girls. How do I ask her out in this scenario? Should I just go up to them, introduce myself and make small talk. Then ask to pull her aside where I ask her out to coffee or something? We haven't talked besides me complimenting her hair. Think of something that just the two of you could do. Then ask her if she would be interested.
FredEire Posted February 26 Posted February 26 15 hours ago, Sony12 said: Think of something that just the two of you could do. Then ask her if she would be interested. I think maybe OP's point is that he feels weird asking her something like that with her two friends staring at him and his attempt to ask her out on a date
Sanch62 Posted February 27 Posted February 27 Get to know all 3 of them over time. Once you feel more relaxed around one another, you won't feel like you're under a microscope. Then you can ask to speak with her out of range of the other two without it being a big deal. Getting to know as many classmates as possible is always an advantage. Don't wait until you have an agenda to be more social in general. It makes everything easier. 1
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