S2B Posted August 2 Share Posted August 2 You need to know if the kids are yours. Have you dna tested them? Link to post Share on other sites
Author bummedbythiscommunity Posted August 2 Author Share Posted August 2 I have to say I already know I'm their Dad and will always be and am not going to do any DNA / paternity testing. I understand the drive to know such things maybe in the future for medical reasons if the youngest would want to know but the other two are definitely mine biologically. And I will just be happily in the dark about my youngest for as long as I can be. That might sound silly or dumb but there's way bigger things to deal with right now that worrying about that. They know nobody as their Dad except me and I'm not going to open a can of worms that might change that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author bummedbythiscommunity Posted August 3 Author Share Posted August 3 To you this may be some fictional story but to me and my kids it is real life we are in the middle of. Your assuming you know all and this isn't really happening is not helpful at all. When you're in a really bad place and people say it's not even really happening, I hope that helps you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author bummedbythiscommunity Posted August 4 Author Share Posted August 4 Not sure how to express the disappointment / hurt / not really sure what the feelings are in hearing your making my reality into some game. You've ruined what I had hoped could be a helpful community. Thanks to those who gave helpful & caring input. Link to post Share on other sites
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