Sandy98 Posted July 8, 2024 Posted July 8, 2024 Hi! so I’ve been dating this guy for a month or so now. We haven’t slept together yet but the other day we were making out and he asked if we could stop. We were on the sofa and I was on top and we were kissing and it was going great and then he said he was tired and did I mind if we stopped. I obviously stopped right away. He had his hand near his crotch (sorry if that’s tmi!) then excused himself to go get a drink of water. Did I do something wrong? Why would he want to stop? Fairly new to the dating game so not sure if im reading too much into it or need to improve my make out game! Or maybe he really was just tired?
BaileyB Posted July 8, 2024 Posted July 8, 2024 What were your intentions - were you hoping to escalate to sex? Or were you content to continue making out? My first thought - it got too much for him and he needed to stop if this wasn’t going to progress to sex. 1
Gaeta Posted July 8, 2024 Posted July 8, 2024 How old are you Sandy? Yes it's normal for a man to stop making out if he knows it will not end with sex. See, when a man is aroused and nothing happens to relieve that sexual tension it becomes physically painful for him. If you do not want to have intercourse then you do not have those intense making out sessions. 3
Ami1uwant Posted July 8, 2024 Posted July 8, 2024 If this was me and I enjoyed it I would be getting hard which implies something more. So he needed to cool down
FredEire Posted July 8, 2024 Posted July 8, 2024 1 hour ago, Gaeta said: How old are you Sandy? Yes it's normal for a man to stop making out if he knows it will not end with sex. See, when a man is aroused and nothing happens to relieve that sexual tension it becomes physically painful for him. If you do not want to have intercourse then you do not have those intense making out sessions. Yes blue balls! There are many pains women suffer we don't have to go through but this is one of the worst on our end. I'm willing to bet this is what was happening.
smackie9 Posted July 8, 2024 Posted July 8, 2024 Next time slam a box of condoms on the coffee table before you jump on top of him. 2
stillafool Posted July 8, 2024 Posted July 8, 2024 2 minutes ago, smackie9 said: Next time slam a box of condoms on the coffee table before you jump on top of him. LOL!!!
Gebidozo Posted July 9, 2024 Posted July 9, 2024 (edited) Ok, maybe I’m dumb, but I’m having a hard time (no pun intended) understanding the responses to the OP’s statement. If I were single and there was a woman sitting on top of me and making out, there’s no way I would’ve stopped that, unless I was really not attracted to the woman at all. But then I wouldn’t be making out with her. Sorry, but if he cut off the making out session like that I can only assume that he wasn’t sexually interested in you. Or he had something embarrassing down there, I don’t know, maybe he was wearing a pink Hello Kitty thong or something and was ashamed of exposing you to such a sight. Edited July 9, 2024 by Gebidozo 1
basil67 Posted July 9, 2024 Posted July 9, 2024 (edited) 7 hours ago, Gebidozo said: Ok, maybe I’m dumb, but I’m having a hard time (no pun intended) understanding the responses to the OP’s statement. I imagine that he was young and getting close to messing up his underpants. I can fully understand why he may want to avoid that happening Edited July 9, 2024 by basil67
NuevoYorko Posted July 10, 2024 Posted July 10, 2024 I agree, I got the impression that they're teenagers.
Gebidozo Posted July 10, 2024 Posted July 10, 2024 1 hour ago, basil67 said: I imagine that he was young and getting close to messing up his underpants. I can fully understand why he may want to avoid that happening Oh… I… now vaguely recall things that may or may not have happened 25 years ago 1
dancehead Posted July 17, 2024 Posted July 17, 2024 Maybe he just needed to go to the loo, it's no good trying to have sex if you need a pee. Then by the time he got back you were worried instead of wanting to carry on.
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