mv123 Posted June 24 Share Posted June 24 Over a year ago I was seeing this girl, but things fizzled out because of my work schedules, plus we were both seeing other people still. After we added each other on social media, there was a time period where she was liking my stories, but I didn't look too much into it. At the end of last year I had tickets to a concert and didn't have anyone to go with, so I called her and she told me she is seeing somebody and can't go, but that she will call me if things don't work out. So, I kinda forget about her, but a month later she messages me saying something like "Sorry I haven't been in touch much. I am only now seeing your messages, etc." (I just wished her happy birthday). I just ignored the messages (didn't know what to respond) Fast forward 1-2 months and I started my OnlyFans Management Agency and started seeing some success. I reach out to her if she wants to be a model on OF and I send her the results I've been getting and she invites me to coffee to discuss. This was the weirdest interaction ever and I am looking for answers here to decode it. So basically I invite her to this fancy place for coffee and frame this as a business meeting and she keeps sending me texts "Why so formal and serious, etc.", but in the end she agreed to go. When we spoke she was very nervous and sounded almost apologetic. I was describing her the OF business, and she kept asking me about the concert, kept talking about our previous dates, etc. During this I asked her a couple of times if she's in relationship with somebody and sometimes she said yes and sometimes she just said maybe I am and maybe not - confusing as f***. She also asked me if I wanted to go to some local theater shows with her, etc. (told her I'm not into that). She was also constantly asking me about other girls (I posted some on social media) and she seemed very jealous and mad at me almost. So in the end she offered to pay and as we were walking toward our cars she completely changed her demeanor from nervous to very relaxed and feminine. We said goodbye to each other, she smiled at me and that's it. After all this, a couple of days later I just sent her a message saying to reach out if she's interested in this OF thing and she opened immediately, but never responded. From my perspective she sounded like she has a placeholder boyfriend and wants a better option (me), but doesn't want to seem slutty to cheat directly - don't know if I'm reading the situation correctly. Any thoughts on this? Did she wanna cheat or not? Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted June 25 Share Posted June 25 (edited) Given that you already know each other and have history of casual sex, if she wanted to sleep with you, surely she would have asked. There's no reason to play coy with all that history behind you both I wouldn't make assumptions about her having a boyfriend either way. If she doesn't want to disclose her relationship status, that's her prerogative. It's not like you've asked her to be your girlfriend Edited June 25 by basil67 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Sony12 Posted June 25 Share Posted June 25 Also. Only Fans is a way for girls to make money simply by taking sexy pics of themselves. The fact that she only started acting that way after you offered her an opportunity to model on Only Fans indicates she probably had that on her mind far more than anything else. Link to post Share on other sites
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