MissLY Posted March 14 Share Posted March 14 I met a guy on a two day job last week. I found him attractive but I didn’t feel bold enough to ask him out. I reached out to him on Social Media and said: “Hey so and so! We didn’t get a chance to talk much but it was great to meet you! I love your vibe and energy.” His response: “Hey so and so! It was great to meet you too! I’m currently on vacation but, let’s find some time over the next couple of weeks to find some synergies.” I’m confused by “synergies” or what he’s trying to say. I can’t tell if he genuinely wants to talk and meet up or if he’s just being polite and saying whatever sounds “good”. Lol. I was going to say: “Sounds great, have fun! Give me a shout when you’re back in town and we can go from there!” Or something like that. I can also be super bold and ask him out, but I’m not sure. I feel stuck. Thoughts? Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted March 14 Share Posted March 14 This message is fine. He seems polite and interested in working together again. Please don't jump to asking him out. Try to get a sense of things first. "Sounds great, have fun! Give me a shout when you’re back in town and we can go from there!” Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted March 14 Share Posted March 14 I'd go with the sounds great response you are thinking about. I don't know what he means by synergies either but assuming he does reach out & you two get together it has to be positive. Link to post Share on other sites
OKtoday Posted March 14 Share Posted March 14 I think he was being clever and used the word synergies because you said “you loved his vibe & energy”. I take it like….lets get together soon and sync our energies 2 Link to post Share on other sites
happyhorizons Posted March 14 Share Posted March 14 Go For It...........push the envelope and see how he responds. Link to post Share on other sites
Lotsgoingon Posted March 14 Share Posted March 14 He already asked you out--or said yes to your implied asking out. . The "synergies" line--he's saying I want to see you and I like you too. "Sounds great." I wouldn't even say "have fun" necessarily. I'm not sure what the heck else you are looking for. He just got cute with the language. The overall tone--I'm available. I like you too. Let's get together with both of our good energies--since we like each other's energies. Why are you confusing yourself here? Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted March 14 Share Posted March 14 Synergies is just another way of saying getting together to have an interaction. Link to post Share on other sites
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