Persistent woman on OLD

[ZA Dater]

16 hours ago, Gaeta said:

I think it's about you not trusting your own judgment. 

You knew something was off with this woman that's why you came on here and ran it by us. You did not trust you had the right opinion of her, you were right she was not a good candidate for you for XYZ that you named yourself. 

Have more trust in your judgment. 

This is true, its difficult to trust my judgement when I seem to get it so wrong too often. My usual approach is to take a step back and assess but the risk here is paralysis by analysis so that is not ideal either.  In my the past my judgement has seen me pass up opportunities I really should have taken and seen where they might lead but again when I look at the reasoning it still stands up, the probability was pretty low on those opportunities leading to anything substantial.

[semble]

If I had such a low success rate as you I wouldn't assume she's a scammer and just cut her off.

At the very least do a video chat and at best commit to a 5 minute meet up date.

Just don't sign anything and keep your wallet in your front pocket.

[ZA Dater]

9 minutes ago, semble said:

If I had such a low success rate as you I wouldn't assume she's a scammer and just cut her off.

At the very least do a video chat and at best commit to a 5 minute meet up date.

Just don't sign anything and keep your wallet in your front pocket.

I told her unfortunately we are not compatible and wished her well. She isn't attractive to me so there is no point in meeting. She wants a father figure for her child and I am not interested.

[Sony12]

Women on OLD are seldom that aggressive. When they are that aggressive often it's because they either aren't actually a woman or they have some ulterior motives. Most women on OLD like for the guy to make the first move. Even guys that many women are extremely attracted to don't have women initiate first encounters that often. They just don't have any problems getting women to accept meet up invitations.

Edited January 25, 2024 by Sony12