Alphaba Posted January 9, 2024 Posted January 9, 2024 My male friend who I hang out with and chat with sometimes called me a weirdo today I replied with âI amâ to which he replied âyou areâ is this a good sign or a bad sign if someone thinks youâre weird?Â
Wiseman2 Posted January 9, 2024 Posted January 9, 2024 12 minutes ago, Alphaba said: My male friend who I hang out with and chat with sometimes called me a weirdo today I replied with âI amâ to which he replied âyou areâ is this a good sign or a bad sign if someone thinks youâre weird? If you two kid around a lot it seems like friendly banter. Is this the same man?: Â
MsJayne Posted January 9, 2024 Posted January 9, 2024 What was the context of the conversation? 'Wierdo' isn't usually aimed as an insult, it's usually more an acknowledgement that you're quirky and outside the box, and there's nothing wrong with that.Â
Author Alphaba Posted January 9, 2024 Author Posted January 9, 2024 We were talking about a mutual acquaintance who is known to be a very strange individual, I joked that me and him were best mates and thatâs when he said weirdo
Author Alphaba Posted January 9, 2024 Author Posted January 9, 2024 18 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: If you two kid around a lot it seems like friendly banter. Is this the same man? Yeah
Alpacalia Posted January 9, 2024 Posted January 9, 2024 43 minutes ago, Alphaba said: My male friend who I hang out with and chat with sometimes called me a weirdo today I replied with âI amâ to which he replied âyou areâ is this a good sign or a bad sign if someone thinks youâre weird? You can freely throw around the term âweirdoâ when conversing with those who hold a special place in your heart, like your siblings or dear comrades, and in laid-back discussions. Do you embrace your inner weirdo? 1 1
Author Alphaba Posted January 9, 2024 Author Posted January 9, 2024 Ha ha I certainly do! I think most people regard me as a bit different. I donât spose I mind really 1
MsJayne Posted January 9, 2024 Posted January 9, 2024 1 hour ago, Alphaba said: We were talking about a mutual acquaintance who is known to be a very strange individual, I joked that me and him were best mates and thatâs when he said weirdo So you're accepting of people who are different. In a world where there's way too much judgement and intolerance it's nice that some of us just accept others without having to be told to do so. Plus it definitely was said as a term of endearment   1
Alpacalia Posted January 9, 2024 Posted January 9, 2024 9 minutes ago, Alphaba said: Ha ha I certainly do! I think most people regard me as a bit different. I donât spose I mind really So I take it your house is not filled with Ikea furniture then?
Author Alphaba Posted January 9, 2024 Author Posted January 9, 2024 No⊠definitely not my taste. My furnitureâs mostly second hand, quirky bits that no one else wanted 1
Kassieee Posted January 11, 2024 Posted January 11, 2024 If you aren't bantering back and forth then his comment is not that serious. If he stops talking to you, then you know.
LuckyM Posted January 11, 2024 Posted January 11, 2024 If it is said with a smile, all right. If not, well, who knows? Weirdo is NOT a compliment where I come from. Derogatory, nasty. if you think someone is normal, you dont know them well enough. (Because they are not.) Usually. 1
Alpacalia Posted January 11, 2024 Posted January 11, 2024 38 minutes ago, LuckyM said: If it is said with a smile, all right. If not, well, who knows? Weirdo is NOT a compliment where I come from. Derogatory, nasty. if you think someone is normal, you dont know them well enough. (Because they are not.) Usually. Clearly you missed the part where she is comfortable with her inner weirdo.
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