Jmartineau Posted October 31, 2023 Share Posted October 31, 2023 I 16M invited a girl 16F I really like to a party via asking her if she wanted to go with me, and she said yes. I know she's into me from various people, and she's admitted to someone that she broke up to see if I would make a move. However, now I'm really not sure what to do at the party. Do I stick with her for a good bit of time considering I invited her, or do I branch off quickly and give her freedom to do whatever. I don't want to look clingy, but also don't want to seem disinterested. The parties are somewhat large with around 50 people in a clubhouse and there's always a lot going on. This is kinda my first time getting this far so not really sure what to do. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted October 31, 2023 Share Posted October 31, 2023 Good for you for being brave enough to ask. Fortune favors the brave. You escort her into the party & make sure she has people to talk to. Once she's engaged in conversation you can break free to go talk to others but periodically come back around to check in with her throughout the party. You invited her so you have some obligation to assure she's having fun. Make sure she knows everyone's names & they know hers. You don't have to be glued at the hip but you need to be attentive. She should be the girl you dance with. If there is food make sure she gets some. Never leave her standing or sitting alone with no one to talk to. At 16 neither of you should be drinking but if there are alcohol or drugs at this party, don't overindulge. Do NOT drive if you have had even one. Keep her safe if she over does it. Understand that a drunk / buzzed / stoned / tipsy girl is legally incapable of consenting. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted October 31, 2023 Share Posted October 31, 2023 3 hours ago, Jmartineau said: , now I'm really not sure what to do at the party. Do I stick with her for a good bit of time considering I invited her, or do I branch off quickly and give her freedom to do whatever. Since she's your guest, definitely stick around enough to make her comfortable. Introduce her to people, make sure she is having fun etc. You can circulate and mingle, but keep her in the loop. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
MsJayne Posted October 31, 2023 Share Posted October 31, 2023 Be attentive and don't get so smashed that you say or do something to mess it up, and don't leave her side until she's comfortably engaged in conversation with others, and check in regularly . 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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