On 11/30/2022 at 5:37 PM, NuevoYorko said:

She is not a part of your relationship. It's you and him. He abused your trust. Behaving like that was no big deal, all in the past, etc. is wrong of him. You don't need to accept that at all.

What stood in the way of him and his affair partner being together after you and he broke up?

absolutely nothing, we were seperated long enough that they could have started a proper relationship, but when I question this he says it was never her he wanted 😕