stillafool Posted August 14, 2022 Share Posted August 14, 2022 10 hours ago, Wiseman2 said: He didn't actually say that. You have a crush so would you like tips on how to flatter the boss? If you are developing a crush on your boss you need to "cool it". That is a recipe for disaster and a straight path to lose your job. Get interested in guys you don't work with. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
lovey-dovey Posted November 10, 2022 Share Posted November 10, 2022 During a team meeting, my supervisor asked me a question and I answered him, but then my colleague called me dirty minded as my answer could be interpreted in a sexual way. Afterwards, my supervisor asked me the same question again with wink when he understood my answer the first time around and my answer was also appropriate. Why did he wink? Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted November 11, 2022 Share Posted November 11, 2022 Man that was 2 months ago and you still haven't gotten over a wink. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
lovingusomuch Posted March 31, 2023 Share Posted March 31, 2023 We were in discussion with others and he was asking me intentionally a question that involved discussing erectile dysfunction/viagra in front of others - so I refused to talk about it and changed the topic - was he being rude or childish? Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted March 31, 2023 Share Posted March 31, 2023 Are you a man or woman? Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted March 31, 2023 Share Posted March 31, 2023 Why was he asking the question? Link to post Share on other sites
lovingusomuch Posted April 1, 2023 Share Posted April 1, 2023 2 hours ago, stillafool said: Are you a man or woman? woman - why does it make a difference? Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted April 1, 2023 Share Posted April 1, 2023 (edited) 11 minutes ago, lovingusomuch said: woman - why does it make a difference? The difference is if you were a man he could have been seeking information. Considering you are a woman it was rude and inappropriate. What was your response? Edited April 1, 2023 by stillafool Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted April 1, 2023 Share Posted April 1, 2023 19 hours ago, lovingusomuch said: We were in discussion with others and he was asking me intentionally a question that involved discussing erectile dysfunction/viagra in front of others - What the heck was the context of this question? I'm trying to imagine a situation in which a supervisor would even bring this up. Link to post Share on other sites
NuevoYorko Posted April 3, 2023 Share Posted April 3, 2023 Are you pharmacists? Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted April 3, 2023 Share Posted April 3, 2023 On 3/31/2023 at 8:46 PM, lovingusomuch said: woman - why does it make a difference? Yes. Asking another male coworker about sexual medication is vastly different than making sexual comments to female coworkers. Link to post Share on other sites
JTSW Posted April 3, 2023 Share Posted April 3, 2023 As you are a woman there was no reason for him to ask you those questions. He was trying to make you feel uncomfortable. His behaviour is inappropriate. Link to post Share on other sites
lovingusomuch Posted April 3, 2023 Share Posted April 3, 2023 (edited) 12 hours ago, NuevoYorko said: Are you pharmacists? lol, yes that's right. Do you still think it is inappropriate. He asked me the question twice, and he knew that I knew what he was talking about but he wanted to say it out loud. Edited April 3, 2023 by lovingusomuch Link to post Share on other sites
lovingusomuch Posted April 3, 2023 Share Posted April 3, 2023 8 hours ago, JTSW said: As you are a woman there was no reason for him to ask you those questions. He was trying to make you feel uncomfortable. His behaviour is inappropriate. well we are health care professionals - but he was asking me when he knew I know the answers to his questions. He just wanted me to say it out loud. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted April 4, 2023 Share Posted April 4, 2023 5 hours ago, lovingusomuch said: well we are health care professionals - but he was asking me when he knew I know the answers to his questions. He just wanted me to say it out loud. Sounds to me like you could both grow up a bit. He should stop teasing. And as a health professional, you should know that ED and it's treatment is not something to be embarrassed about. The words are not embarrassing to say in public. If he tries it again, just answer dead pan. If you stop being embarrassed, he'll get bored. Link to post Share on other sites
lovingusomuch Posted April 4, 2023 Share Posted April 4, 2023 44 minutes ago, basil67 said: Sounds to me like you could both grow up a bit. He should stop teasing. And as a health professional, you should know that ED and it's treatment is not something to be embarrassed about. The words are not embarrassing to say in public. If he tries it again, just answer dead pan. If you stop being embarrassed, he'll get bored. I know that.. but when he asked the question the first time around and it took me few seconds to answer him, he said that I have dirty mind so I laughed... then he asked me the same question again with a wink. I am not the one with immature brain. Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted April 4, 2023 Share Posted April 4, 2023 (edited) 37 minutes ago, lovingusomuch said: , he said that I have dirty mind so I laughed... then he asked me the same question again with a wink. Is this the same "dirty mind and a wink" man? Edited April 4, 2023 by Wiseman2 Link to post Share on other sites
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