Is it common for women to be this forward on a first date?

[Sgthaytham]

Our first date was last Saturday, and it couldn’t have gone any better. 
 

We went to an arcade, played some games, grabbed some drinks, ate a cake, played some more, drunk some more. 
 

At one point, I teased her for going to the loo so often, and when she came back she was “I think you should kiss me”. 
 

Never had this happen to me. 

[stillafool]

Yes.  Believe it not women are actually approaching men asking them out and going for the kiss and more.  2021!

[Veronica73]

That sounds like a really fun first date. And I don’t think that’s terribly forward. I’ve had guys ask me if they could kiss me on first dates. What about it bothers you? That she assumed that you would want to kiss her?

[Wiseman2]

4 minutes ago, Sgthaytham said:

Our first date was last Saturday, and it couldn’t have gone any better. going to the loo and when she came back she was “I think you should kiss me”. 

That's great. Not too forward at all. She came out of the loo still clothed, correct?

Edited November 17, 2021 by Wiseman2

[Sun Seeker]

All sounds pretty standard to be honest.

[Sgthaytham]

Just now, Wiseman2 said:

That's great. Not too forward at all. She came out of the loo dressed, correct?

Haha yes! basically I told her “You’re spending more quality time with a toilet than me. If you manage to go 10 times tonight, I might get jealous and leave” she laughed, playfully hit me and then she came back (clothed). 
 

Last night, she was like “You have such beautiful eyes” and I was like “tell me something I don’t already know” and she laughed, hit me, and cuddled up. 

[Sgthaytham]

3 minutes ago, Veronica73 said:

That sounds like a really fun first date. And I don’t think that’s terribly forward. I’ve had guys ask me if they could kiss me on first dates. What about it bothers you? That she assumed that you would want to kiss her?

What bothers me is that maybe I missed the cues to kiss her, but oh well

It really was a great date. Last night was pretty damn good too  

 

[Veronica73]

So did you kiss her?

[glows]

There is a lot of drinking so put this in perspective. I wouldn't think anything of it. Limit the drinks in future and go on a nice dinner. See how you both vibe with one another.

[Sgthaytham]

1 minute ago, Veronica73 said:

So did you kiss her?

Dude of course!

[Veronica73]

I don’t think you need to worry about cues about whether you should have kissed her or not. She said what she wanted.

[Veronica73]

1 minute ago, Sgthaytham said:

Dude of course!

Lol! Good. Honestly, it sounds like an awesome date.

[Sgthaytham]

5 minutes ago, Veronica73 said:

Lol! Good. Honestly, it sounds like an awesome date.

We slept together for the first time last night. Her flatmate, who’s a friend of mine invite a bunch of people to her’s for dinner. 
 

There’s definitely strong chemistry. 

[Veronica73]

Sounds like you’ve got it under control! 

[Sgthaytham]

1 minute ago, Veronica73 said:

Sounds like you’ve got it under control! 

Idk… I’m trying to be chill about it, but inside I’m realising how much I really like her and I don’t want to act like a fool. 

[Veronica73]

Yeah….but the first kiss thing really isn’t something to worry about. And I doubt you’re acting like a fool. It sounds like she likes you.

[mark clemson]

It just means she likes you. Good you are rolling with it. Do not be shocked if a first date ends with sex at some point, it certainly happens.

Edited November 17, 2021 by mark clemson

[dramafreezone]

1 hour ago, Sgthaytham said:

Our first date was last Saturday, and it couldn’t have gone any better. 
 

We went to an arcade, played some games, grabbed some drinks, ate a cake, played some more, drunk some more. 
 

At one point, I teased her for going to the loo so often, and when she came back she was “I think you should kiss me”. 
 

Never had this happen to me. 

When they have a high level of interest right off the bat, yes. 

Sometimes you will just check all of the boxes for a woman immediately, or at least what's she's looking for at the moment.   Enjoy it.

Edited November 17, 2021 by dramafreezone

[Wiseman2]

49 minutes ago, Sgthaytham said:

We slept together for the first time last night.

Aha! So she did get undressed

[Alpacalia]

Oh yes, I went in for a kiss once. But he seemed shocked afterwards. 

Edited November 17, 2021 by Alpaca

[smackie9]

I grabbed my husband and kissed him on our first date. Some women are assertive. Most guys don't have time to react in my experience, and happily so because there is no worry more like excitement/fun.

Edited November 18, 2021 by smackie9

[Angelle]

I think it sounds great. She was having a good time, and wanted you to kiss her.