Agentra Posted November 8, 2021 Share Posted November 8, 2021 Hi, thanks for reading. Some thoughts. I was in a relationship where, in the end, turns out I was being cheated on the entire time. After I found out and kicked him out, he beat me into a pulp and I spent the next 3 days in a hospital. After that ordeal I completely lost myself and took a long time to recover mentally. But having been fooled, used, treated as an idiot, blamed, I've never gotten over that and I honestly don't think I can/want to. He doesn't consume my mind whatsoever, but every time I get a reminder of some sort, the sense of disgust and hatred I feel is intense to say the least. It doesn't last long and I can shut it out with ease, but is it "okay" to hate somebody forever? Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted November 8, 2021 Share Posted November 8, 2021 2 hours ago, Agentra said: is it "okay" to hate somebody forever? Yes. He's evil. You don't "forgive and forget" someone who put you in the hospital. However don't let anger or hurt consume you or ruin future happiness. Link to post Share on other sites
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