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So what if I never stop hating him?


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Hi, thanks for reading. 

Some thoughts. I was in a relationship where, in the end, turns out I was being cheated on the entire time. After I found out and kicked him out, he beat me into a pulp and I spent the next 3 days in a hospital. After that ordeal I completely lost myself and took a long time to recover mentally. But having been fooled, used, treated as an idiot, blamed, I've never gotten over that and I honestly don't think I can/want to. 

He doesn't consume my mind whatsoever, but every time I get a reminder of some sort, the sense of disgust and hatred I feel is intense to say the least. It doesn't last long and I can shut it out with ease, but is it "okay" to hate somebody forever? 

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2 hours ago, Agentra said:

 is it "okay" to hate somebody forever? 

Yes. He's evil. You don't "forgive and forget" someone who put you in the hospital.

However don't let anger or hurt consume you or ruin future happiness.

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