Agentra Posted November 4, 2021 Posted November 4, 2021 16 hours ago, Otter2569 said: Knowing this woman is fragile (aka crazy) You're quite rude towards the women you're treating like crap. Maybe do some thinking, reflect a bit and get your head out of your you-know-what. 4
jspice Posted November 4, 2021 Posted November 4, 2021 20 hours ago, Otter2569 said: Knowing this woman is fragile (aka crazy) and looking to move back to this area I prefer to be more diplomatic...if possible. If she was so fragile and crazy you probably shouldn’t have slept with her. It seems like you want to do whatever you want without consequences. I’d say their reactions to your actions are quite normal and to be expected. It sounds like you thrive on the drama. 2
Author Otter2569 Posted November 4, 2021 Author Posted November 4, 2021 20 hours ago, elaine567 said: You treated friends you have known for up to thirty years as casual sex partners... If a guy I had known for years asked me out on a date I would assume he was serious about me, not just using me for sex... With a friend like you, who needs enemies? Elaine, nothing could be further from the truth. I did not pursue any of these women. Most of the contact was initiated by them. Two were quite clear in indicating they wanted sex - including the one who is now upset and asking questions. Another was fine with a casual relationship and getting together once in a while - even if I was in a relationship. Most of our dates were just that - drinks, talking, no sex . The upset woman made it clear what she wanted and attacked me in the car. We didn't even have a date. To me it was fun for a week. Clearly it was much more to her even though she lives across the country.
Author Otter2569 Posted November 4, 2021 Author Posted November 4, 2021 6 hours ago, Agentra said: You're quite rude towards the women you're treating like crap. Maybe do some thinking, reflect a bit and get your head out of your you-know-what. Just the opposite my dear. I am damned nice, open, enjoyable and fun to be around. How am I treating anyone like crap? Please follow the conversation before passing your judgment!
Author Otter2569 Posted November 4, 2021 Author Posted November 4, 2021 2 hours ago, jspice said: If she was so fragile and crazy you probably shouldn’t have slept with her. It seems like you want to do whatever you want without consequences. I’d say their reactions to your actions are quite normal and to be expected. It sounds like you thrive on the drama. This woman contacted me after 30 years and was pretty straight forward in her intentions when she asked me out (sexting and sending naked pics). She was recently divorced and jumped me the second we were alone so yes I should have read the signs and walked away from the allure of hot sex. Her being in town for one week and living 1,000 miles away seemed too good to be true. I acknowledge my role in this but wonder how many guys would have handled this differently?!
Wiseman2 Posted November 4, 2021 Posted November 4, 2021 3 minutes ago, Otter2569 said: I acknowledge my role in this but wonder how many guys would have handled this differently?! Did you delete and block snooper woman from social media? What was the final outcome? How is the new "couple pic" woman doing?
Author Otter2569 Posted November 4, 2021 Author Posted November 4, 2021 50 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: Did you delete and block snooper woman from social media? What was the final outcome? How is the new "couple pic" woman doing? Yes. She is blocked - all has been quiet and calm ever since. All is well and moving at an enjoyable pace with pic woman - not too fast and not too slow. 2
Wiseman2 Posted November 11, 2021 Posted November 11, 2021 On 11/4/2021 at 10:51 AM, Otter2569 said: Yes. She is blocked - all has been quiet and calm ever since. All is well and moving at an enjoyable pace with pic woman - not too fast and not too slow. Excellent. Good she's out of the picture and you can focus on couple pic woman
SumGuy Posted November 12, 2021 Posted November 12, 2021 On 11/4/2021 at 9:46 AM, Otter2569 said: This woman contacted me after 30 years and was pretty straight forward in her intentions when she asked me out (sexting and sending naked pics). She was recently divorced and jumped me the second we were alone so yes I should have read the signs and walked away from the allure of hot sex. Her being in town for one week and living 1,000 miles away seemed too good to be true. I acknowledge my role in this but wonder how many guys would have handled this differently?! To be honest, likely would have done the same and have relied on the distance to assume she was just using me for sex, and not get all fatal attraction on me. You also never know if you had said no to her how she would have reacted. As to original questions, I don't kiss and tell. Sure someone I am actually in a relationship gets answers to such questions, but I choose wisely and it is not some open season and exploration of our past sexual partners.
Author Otter2569 Posted November 15, 2021 Author Posted November 15, 2021 On 11/12/2021 at 12:15 PM, SumGuy said: ... I don't kiss and tell. Sure someone I am actually in a relationship gets answers to such questions, but I choose wisely and it is not some open season and exploration of our past sexual partners. Totally agree. The nature of the relationship does have an impact. Although I blocked this woman on social media she did text a few days after to apologize.
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