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Is this a big deal? Should I be mad at my BF over this?


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43 minutes ago, Blind-Sided said:

Sure... that's exactly how it should work.  On that point I agree 100%.  But if he was pulling his weight... then why is she upset?  LOL.    But then again... my exW was that way.  On her way out, she blamed me for not doing enough dishes, or laundry.  But she failed to see me working on cars, mowing the grass, plowing snow, fixing everything that broke, and general house maintenance.  (saving 10's of thousands of $$$ over the 20 years we were together)

Then again... sometimes a simple thing becomes a hot topic.

First, we only have one side of the story.  I always keep that in mind when people post on here.  Maybe he could come on here and give us a list of things that she does that's annoying and the entire dynamic wouldn't seem so one-sided.

Second, sometimes relationships just run their course.  The BF could not have changed anything about his behavior but when you're in love it's endearing.  When you're not in love it's annoying.

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My first thought was that maybe this is the tip of the iceberg. 
 

Op, do you feel like your boyfriend takes advantage of you generally, financially or otherwise? 
 

 

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