Emotionally Unavailable Man - Never contacted me again after emotional moment

[mimic2021]

15 hours ago, Angelle said:

"WTF was that?!" Yes, I've been there, and I've just edited out my own rant, relating to it.

Thank you for your input,@Angelle

I read your original comment after you've posted it (before it was edited). I don't remember in detail what it exactly was that you have written about your personal situation, but I remember that my first impulse/thought was to tell you that whatever you're going through at the moment/back then seems like a great opportunity to grow from it and take the time to reflect and develop yourself. 

And yes! This experience of "What the flip was that" is very real. You know what? I once heard that when you don't understand your past behaviour anymore it is a strong indicator for how you have outgrown your past self. And I think that's a beautiful thing. We're all evolving and growing. 

Again, I don't remember specifically what you have written about your situation but I sincerely hope that you find the strength to channel your inner warrior to grow and elevate from it. It's a difficult journey that takes time, patience and resources (I for example was privileged to take a whole month off before I switch to my new job). The reality is, not everyone can just leave certain situations or just start this journey of healing. But there are still small changes and strategies that you can incorporate into your life to feel better about yourself and to empower yourself. 

I haven't visited your profile so I can't tell whether you have already asked for advice in regards to your situation. I am certain that if you do, you'll get feedback that will help you with whatever obstacle you're facing that's standing between you and your well-being and happiness. You can always tag me and I am more than happy to offer advice! 

I don't think you should've deleted your own rant - it's a conversation in this forum and everyone is welcome (at least I hope so?) to participate with their own unique input and advice. I think it's unfortunate that I didn't have the opportunity to reply quicker after I saw your comment. 

No matter what, Angelle - I sincerely wish you all the best! 

Edited July 2, 2021 by mimic2021
Changed a sentence for better understanding.