Author Lucyjane86 Posted October 28, 2019 Author Posted October 28, 2019 She must have known who i was because me and him have both been sent a message on FB fron her friend telling us what a disgrace we both are and that him and hwr were still very much together when he started sleeping with me. She said he has no right to call himself a father and it is disgusting the way hes behaving and that im as much to blame as him because hes putting seeing me above his sick child
Author Lucyjane86 Posted October 28, 2019 Author Posted October 28, 2019 But it means his ex must have known who i was somehow. He said he hasnt told her
Gaeta Posted October 28, 2019 Posted October 28, 2019 She could have known from someone working with him, family, friends, or who ever. It doesn't matter how she knows it, maybe he told her in one of their communication and hide it from you because....as we said 1000 times he's a liar. I don't have enough English vocabulary to explain to you how much this guy is garbage.
Author Lucyjane86 Posted October 28, 2019 Author Posted October 28, 2019 He definitely didnt tell her. He only told her that once that he was seeing someone and then never told her when he was with me
Gaeta Posted October 28, 2019 Posted October 28, 2019 So? what's your point? why does it matter? She doesn't want him anymore, you're free to be together, it's not enough for you to be happy? 1
Author Lucyjane86 Posted October 28, 2019 Author Posted October 28, 2019 Yeah but now ive got her friend messaging me all sorts
elaine567 Posted October 28, 2019 Posted October 28, 2019 You were the other woman, we all told you that, but you didn't listen. The other woman is usually "hated", far more than the cheating man. It is why most sensible women tell the attached men to go back to his gf/wife and tell him they want nothing to do with him. Too much potential drama... 2
Gaeta Posted October 28, 2019 Posted October 28, 2019 Yeah but now ive got her friend messaging me all sorts Of course. You think you can come in the middle of a relationship/family and they're will not be any ramification. 1
Versacehottie Posted October 28, 2019 Posted October 28, 2019 Atleast she doesnt want him back anymore Sounds like you've won a real prize!!!! 1
Author Lucyjane86 Posted October 28, 2019 Author Posted October 28, 2019 Her mate never said anything about him trying to get her back
mark clemson Posted October 28, 2019 Posted October 28, 2019 Well, he apparently loves his children. So that's positive. Doesn't mean he's good BF material, though, given everything else. It appears I stand corrected. He's not even going to see his child in hospital? What a disgrace of a father he is. So he has no money for his babies but he has money for hotel rooms, alcohol and cigarets......what a price this guy is! Hard to disagree. Because its early days. I cant know for sure what hes really like yet. ??? Really!?! So, exactly how much worse do you need him to get?? 1
dramallama Posted October 28, 2019 Posted October 28, 2019 Lucy, what's your boyfriend's reason for not going to see his child in hospital? Surely you've asked him?
stillafool Posted October 28, 2019 Posted October 28, 2019 Yeah but now ive got her friend messaging me all sorts Block them. What would be your purpose for responding to her friend?
Author Lucyjane86 Posted October 28, 2019 Author Posted October 28, 2019 Block them. What would be your purpose for responding to her friend? I havent responded. She just sent the one message and she cant see if ive read it or not
Author Lucyjane86 Posted October 28, 2019 Author Posted October 28, 2019 Lucy, what's your boyfriend's reason for not going to see his child in hospital? Surely you've asked him? He thinks shes lying to get him to talk to her. And we've had plans all weekend and today
Author Lucyjane86 Posted October 28, 2019 Author Posted October 28, 2019 His mum rang him a couple of hours ago because his ex had been on the phone to her about him not responding and he said to his mum that he told her (his ex) that his phone wasnt working
Author Lucyjane86 Posted October 28, 2019 Author Posted October 28, 2019 I dont want to be. And im not. They arent together and she doesnt even want him back anymore
Gaeta Posted October 28, 2019 Posted October 28, 2019 So Lucyjane this thread has a happy ending. You got your man to yourself and she is out of the picture. Let us know how it unfolds from here. Good luck. 4
d0nnivain Posted October 28, 2019 Posted October 28, 2019 He turned his phone on when we got up and texts from her came through about one of the children being really sick in the hospital asking him to go to them. He lied and told her his phone hadnt been working all night and he was sorry but shes told him to leave her alone as shes not in the mood to speak to him right now. Any man would does not immediately rush to the bedside of his hospitalized child is not somebody you should want in your life. To add insult to injury he LIED to the child's mother that his phone was broken. I don't care if his leg was broken. He should have been moving heaven & earth to get to his kid. If he can abandon an innocent child, exactly what do you think is going to happen when you need him? If he was questioning the veracity of her statements about the kid, he could have gotten verification from the hospital. Yuck. This guy is an absolute nightmare. The fact that he can make you laugh is no reason to stay with him. Are you that hard up for love & affection that you are willing to overlook such crass behavior? 2
Minneloa Posted October 28, 2019 Posted October 28, 2019 Lucy, do you find this man’s behavior regarding the sick child acceptable?
Author Lucyjane86 Posted October 28, 2019 Author Posted October 28, 2019 Lucy, do you find this man’s behavior regarding the sick child acceptable? If shes telling the truth then no i dont
Author Lucyjane86 Posted October 28, 2019 Author Posted October 28, 2019 That’s delusional. She very much didn’t know about you - as he has been hiding any evidence of you. And she is just mad at the moment because he didn’t act as any normal, caring parent would. They are together. You are the one on the outside. When will you acknowledge what’s real? He’s been cheating on her and lying about you to her. That what anyone calls the OW. YOU are the secret. But they arent together. He told her he was seeing someone and she has said today she doesnt want nim back anymore. That shes beyond disappointednin him and has no respect for him anymore. They have had no contact since
Minneloa Posted October 28, 2019 Posted October 28, 2019 Again, why would she lie? And if you find this behavior unacceptable, why do you continue to focus on whether or not he maintains contact with his ex? Why not focus on what you are learning about his character? 1
Author Lucyjane86 Posted October 28, 2019 Author Posted October 28, 2019 Again, why would she lie? And if you find this behavior unacceptable, why do you continue to focus on whether or not he maintains contact with his ex? Why not focus on what you are learning about his character? I dont know why she would lie. I dont know her. And they havent had any contact. He hasnt replied to her since yesterday and she hasnt text him since this morning when she said she didnt want hin back anymore. That she was done
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