Wiseman2 Posted September 28, 2021 Posted September 28, 2021 13 hours ago, Beaver0273 said: It's weird how happy I've been since the divorce was finalized. I could have lived out the next 15 years married to her for my kid's sake, but I'm glad I didn't. They can see even at their young ages how happy I am alone now. Great happy ending. It's liberating to end bad situations even if it's an uphill climb to get to the other side. Hopefully your story will inspire those too cowardly to leave unfaithful marriages. 2
Robert2016 Posted October 1, 2021 Posted October 1, 2021 Congrats on getting to live the best version of your life!
pepperbird2 Posted October 2, 2021 Posted October 2, 2021 On 9/27/2021 at 6:45 PM, Beaver0273 said: Good news everyone! Kids are mine. House is mine. Truck, camper, and cabin are mine. Decided what happened was too much and filed. I even got primary custody! It's weird how happy I've been since the divorce was finalized. She still is adamant nothing ever happened. Funny thing, I ran into him at a work event a few weeks ago. Told him how he messed my life up because he was desperate for my business. He insisted nothing physical happened but one time and wouldn't say anything else. All in all, I feel great and happy. Never knew I loved boating until I bought one after the divorce. She always wanted one! I could have lived out the next 15 years married to her for my kid's sake, but I'm glad I didn't. They can see even at their young ages how happy I am alone now. Good for you. You ave given your kids an object lesson in that they shouldn't be afraid to stand up for themselves and to not put up with a bad relationship. Here's to the first day of the rest of your life :) 3
Buffer Posted October 20, 2021 Posted October 20, 2021 Great news and good luck in the future. Remember kids are #1 always. one day at a time 1
Uruktopi Posted November 5, 2021 Posted November 5, 2021 On 8/4/2019 at 10:27 AM, Turning point said: You'll learn soon enough what kind of fabric your wife is really made of. Based on what he posted he already should know this. Not a pretty picture. 1
Uruktopi Posted November 5, 2021 Posted November 5, 2021 On 8/4/2019 at 12:32 PM, elaine567 said: Is this a hill to die on? Trully, yes it is. 1
Uruktopi Posted November 5, 2021 Posted November 5, 2021 On 8/5/2019 at 7:37 AM, Turning point said: He's always hated this guy, so his insecurity is obvious. And given what is already known by him, he had and haves quite enough good reasons for
Uruktopi Posted November 5, 2021 Posted November 5, 2021 On 8/6/2019 at 10:47 PM, Turning point said: That question wreaks of insecurity. Her reaction will be that she is repulsed. I agree that it´s not a good question. Not because of any kind on inner "insecurity", bs. But cos to accept cake eating is worst than to be left for another. The point and all the point is if she feels repulsion and disgust for the other man (that indifference is best is also bs).
Uruktopi Posted November 5, 2021 Posted November 5, 2021 On 8/7/2019 at 1:26 PM, elaine567 said: On 8/7/2019 at 5:26 PM, Beaver0273 said: Got into her phone Saturday night. Saw some texts. A few really stood out. He said 'kinda still in love with you'. She replied 'honestly, I feel the same way. How is it that we had our chance and basically blew, then ended up like this?'. Another she said something like 'you are like my drug. I can go so long not seeing you and I'm fine. But when I do I dont want to see you leave' . Others somewhat like that. Maybe because it is no big deal... She KNOWS what happened, we don't... Your answer
Uruktopi Posted November 5, 2021 Posted November 5, 2021 (edited) On 8/7/2019 at 5:51 PM, PRW said: ....but that she may be as much the victim here. Ohhhhhhhhh my! An example of what is best known as wayward thinking. Edited November 5, 2021 by Uruktopi
Uruktopi Posted November 5, 2021 Posted November 5, 2021 On 8/7/2019 at 6:19 PM, Beaver0273 said: Not arguing with you, but why stay if I'm plan B and he told her how he felt? Because being plan B is not mainly being left for another, but being the comfortable support od cake eating while staying.
Uruktopi Posted November 5, 2021 Posted November 5, 2021 On 8/29/2019 at 11:44 AM, Turning point said: She chose to marry and start a family with the OP, is still married to the OP, and whatever contact with the ex provided her - it ended with no intervention by the OP. In other words - she STILL chose the OP. And you are saying that choosing him for the role of betrayed husband is a prize he should be grateful for?????
Tempocontour Posted December 4, 2021 Posted December 4, 2021 Your wife agreed to a divorce, gave you everything even tho she said nothing happened?
jdesey Posted December 13, 2021 Posted December 13, 2021 reminds me of my ex fiance.... she never let go of her ex husband. I am sorry, but this one belongs to another man.
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