ExpatInItaly Posted December 16, 2018 Share Posted December 16, 2018 OP, you have this scarcity mentality that is leading you to bark up the wrong trees. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author ericw899 Posted December 16, 2018 Author Share Posted December 16, 2018 OP, you have this scarcity mentality that is leading you to bark up the wrong trees. Not really sure what that means.... Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted December 17, 2018 Share Posted December 17, 2018 Not really sure what that means.... OP, I mean that you believe you have so few options that you continue to pursue girls who are not interested. You won't get great results that way. Link to post Share on other sites
Starswillshine Posted December 17, 2018 Share Posted December 17, 2018 Likely just as simple as she just goes through all the stories. Since when you click to see them, it just keeps continuing through all stories of all friends. I wouldnt read much into it. Link to post Share on other sites
frankspeci Posted December 19, 2018 Share Posted December 19, 2018 (edited) OP. The reality is you have to move on from this. Dont worry about her. Its very unlikely shes sitting around regretting her decision to go out with a guy who sulks and compares his own dating prowess to that of Freddy Kruger. That mindset just isnt appealing to women. Even compassionate women. At best I'd say shes iffy about you and may or may not reach out one day. As for limited dating options. Start putting yourself out there. Complaining about how unfair it is for you as a man may be justified, but it wont get you laid. I'm in the same boat. Last weekend I was at a house party. Im single. My friend next to me, who has a girlfriend, tried to chat up two girls sitting across from us, and they wouldnt give him the time of day. It was embarassing and I felt bad for him and instinctively relieved that I wasnt the one that was getting rejected like that. But then I realized, this might just be why he is in a relationship and I'm not. Hes not afraid to go out on a limb, take a risk, get rejected. His ego is used to it by now, and he doesn't care who's watching. If OLD isnt working for you, you have no choice but to maneuver offline. Edited December 19, 2018 by frankspeci Link to post Share on other sites
Dodgersfan11 Posted December 19, 2018 Share Posted December 19, 2018 She is probably just spying on you to see if you are dating anyone and See what the girl looks like.Doesn’t mean a thing! I’ve done it before just to be nosy 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author ericw899 Posted December 31, 2018 Author Share Posted December 31, 2018 So she posted a story on snapchat, and I responded asking her if she got a job. She said she did with a smiley face. I then snapped her back congratulating her and we exchanged about 3/4 snaps before she stopped replying. So what is the next move? Do I add her back on instagram? Do I shoot her a text in a few days? Or do I just leaver her be? Link to post Share on other sites
frankspeci Posted January 1, 2019 Share Posted January 1, 2019 My advice on the next move is the same as earlier, and the same as the other thread you started, in which you were hung up on presumably a different girl who was not that interested in seeing you. Obviously I'm not telling you what you want to hear. But in the long run it will get you the results you seek. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
Giraffe-A Posted January 1, 2019 Share Posted January 1, 2019 I’m new with Snapchat. I think I hit view on a story and end up viewing all of them. I don’t think it means anything. If she has not responded to a second date, then just delete her completely. Link to post Share on other sites
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