brigit87 Posted August 3, 2018 Share Posted August 3, 2018 So I'm assuming now that I've quantified what I want, we're in agreement that I'm needy? I don't understand do you want to be considered needy? Or, do you want someone to tell you that you're not needy you're just looking for a normal relationship? People are VERY judgmental. I'm sure plenty of guys thought I was needy and or high maintenance. That's fine. Let them think it. I married a guy who adores me and for the most part doesn't consider my needs a bother. Find a woman who's into you. The neediness will balance itself out. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted August 3, 2018 Share Posted August 3, 2018 Sure, this is what I'm thinking: One lengthy email per day, probably during the first six months (with lots of mushy love talk!).At least three texts per day, with one or two rapid fire exchanges mixed in, at least during the first two years.Cuddling, embracing, etc...at home, in public, wherever, and ongoing without end! The one woman I met a couple months ago texted me and it was like a drug. Shameful, I know, but I'm being honest. I matched her texting frequency of about two per day, but I really wanted more...much more. I'm able to show restraint, though. You should go get with her then. Not a lot of busy adults are going to write a dissertation each and everyday. To a lot of women, your Mr. Octopus routine is overwhelming and frightening. That's a suffocating schedule to most adults. Link to post Share on other sites
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