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Is it possible to believe your partner will change?


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all true statements above. But then why couldn't he pay for some of the larger credit card bills from his checking account - instead he used the trust $ and why didn't he set up a savings account if he really had extra money. At this point, he has about $3,500 in checking and another pay check in a few weeks but then will need to pay rent, etc.

I guess what I'm saying is that can he be trusted to not overspend now that he has some $ and save it because he can surely use it ($30K isn't enough for retirement even with social security).

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I'm confused by your username changing mid thread.

 

You say you've dated 5 years yet your other thread said recently you've dated one year.

 

 

It's clearly one person posting contradictory information under two different accounts and forgot which one to use. "Believe it or Not". I chose not.

 

 

all true statements above. But then why couldn't he pay for some of the larger credit card bills from his checking account - instead he used the trust $ and why didn't he set up a savings account if he really had extra money. At this point, he has about $3,500 in checking and another pay check in a few weeks but then will need to pay rent, etc.

 

 

My bf of almost 5 years has had a history of lies, not to hurt anyone because he is a sensitive guy but I think his ego gets in the way and maybe due to denial.
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