somuchmusic Posted June 18, 2018 Posted June 18, 2018 I have been friends with L for about two years now. Since day one he has been the most caring and considerate human I have ever met, helping me out, hanging out with me - but he never ever showed any romantic interest in me - or anyone else. I went from thinking he might be gay to asexual to maybe something happened to him in the past. He never mentioned a guy or a girl in a romantic sense - and he is in his late 20s. L is tall, cute, slightly strange, but who isn't? I love spending time with him. A few months ago L started to seem different. I can't explain it, but he suddenly turned a lot hotter (more confident), he gave me a flower, he told me he changed. Again - no moves have been made. To clarify, I have been dating guys but every time I get to hang out with L, all the other guys just fall in comparison and this is not doing anything for my love life since every guy I compare to L. He asks me to hang out all the time, has helped me move, has asked me on a trip and to the movies, he brings me random presents and cooks for me. He has also turned a bit more tactile. But I feel if I say anything I will scare him away. I value our friendship a lot, but I can't help but to think there might be something more there. Any thoughts? Thanks.
stillafool Posted June 18, 2018 Posted June 18, 2018 (edited) Here's a thread that might be of interest to you as your problems sound similar. https://www.loveshack.org/forums/platonic/friendship/658192-why-doesnt-he-pay-attention I can only say that if your telling him how you feel is going to scare him away it's not a good sign. Edited June 18, 2018 by stillafool
warp123 Posted June 23, 2018 Posted June 23, 2018 In 2 years he hasnt attempted anything, so hes put himself on the friendzone area, let him play his role and find a man for romance.
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