Author Pink86 Posted May 23, 2018 Author Share Posted May 23, 2018 I've been seeing him as my doc for almost 5 years now. He only acted like this on my last appt. I haven't been back since. This appt was about 3 weeks ago. Haven't heard from him outside of the appt or anything. That's why I'm wondering why he would flirt but not pursue? What is the pount of even flirting then? Link to post Share on other sites
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted May 23, 2018 Share Posted May 23, 2018 What is the pount of even flirting then? To see if you'd take the bait! And also grooming for the next time and the time after.... You're still thinking about it 3 weeks later, so it obviously worked to some extent. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Pink86 Posted May 23, 2018 Author Share Posted May 23, 2018 I feel like sometimes I read into situations too much. Someone told me it seemed like he was flirting and another peraon told me they thought he was being a sarcastic ******* with that comment about " well the rash can't be good for your sex appeal." So I didn't know what to think. If he was flirting or trying to be an ******* to me? Link to post Share on other sites
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted May 23, 2018 Share Posted May 23, 2018 I feel like sometimes I read into situations too much. Someone told me it seemed like he was flirting and another peraon told me they thought he was being a sarcastic ******* with that comment about " well the rash can't be good for your sex appeal." So I didn't know what to think. If he was flirting or trying to be an ******* to me? To me it wouldn't matter. The phrase "sex appeal" should not come out of your GYN's mouth unless you've specifically asked for sexual advice, i.e. a loss of libido or something. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Pink86 Posted May 23, 2018 Author Share Posted May 23, 2018 Okay yes because I never mentioned feeling ugly or unattractive from the rash. He took it upon himself to mention my sex appeal. Link to post Share on other sites
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted May 23, 2018 Share Posted May 23, 2018 Okay yes because I never mentioned feeling ugly or unattractive from the rash. He took it upon himself to mention my sex appeal. Highly inappropriate! It would have been appropriate to say, "Does it itch? What's your pain level on a scale of 1 to 10?" Trust your instincts on this one. Link to post Share on other sites
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted May 24, 2018 Share Posted May 24, 2018 (edited) []It seems now that you're hoping to receive word that he wants an affair with you, so maybe you should just schedule another appointment to be sure. OK this is getting weird. Edited May 24, 2018 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Merge posts and redact content regarding duplicate threads Link to post Share on other sites
Author Pink86 Posted May 24, 2018 Author Share Posted May 24, 2018 I just signed up on here and still trying to figure out how to use this site. Also, no harm in other opinions. I only got opinions from 3 people. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Pink86 Posted May 24, 2018 Author Share Posted May 24, 2018 Didn't mean to post this 3 times. Oops Link to post Share on other sites
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted May 24, 2018 Share Posted May 24, 2018 I just signed up on here and still trying to figure out how to use this site. Also, no harm in other opinions. I only got opinions from 3 people. My apologies. Usually mods will combine threads into one if you post about the same thing in multiple places, FYI. Link to post Share on other sites
FilterCoffee Posted May 24, 2018 Share Posted May 24, 2018 Yes, he’s looking for a hookup. I would find another doctor if I were you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Pink86 Posted May 24, 2018 Author Share Posted May 24, 2018 I don't understand why a doctor would risk their license by hitting on a patient? For all he knows I could report him. Is a piece of ass really that important? Link to post Share on other sites
William Posted May 24, 2018 Share Posted May 24, 2018 With housekeeping out of the way, back to the topic. Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted May 24, 2018 Share Posted May 24, 2018 With housekeeping out of the way, back to the topic. Thanks! You're still missing one . Link to post Share on other sites
FilterCoffee Posted May 24, 2018 Share Posted May 24, 2018 I don't understand why a doctor would risk their license by hitting on a patient? For all he knows I could report him. Is a piece of ass really that important? Well, you did say you were attractive. Sometimes people can be myopic. Link to post Share on other sites
William Posted May 24, 2018 Share Posted May 24, 2018 You're still missing one . Thank you and I reconsidered and moved the combined threads to CFJ since there's no involvement currently. I suggest members read back for context. Remember thread starter, only one thread per topic. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Pink86 Posted May 24, 2018 Author Share Posted May 24, 2018 Gotcha! Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
Author Pink86 Posted May 24, 2018 Author Share Posted May 24, 2018 So I talked to 6 other women who have had him as their doctor and they said never has he ever done or said anything inappropriate to them at any of their appointments. I mentioned my appointment and they were so surprised by it. They said he is a very sarcastic guy who likes to joke around but what he said obviously wasn't a joke. He wanted to get a reaction out of me? Link to post Share on other sites
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