kendahke Posted March 11, 2018 Share Posted March 11, 2018 However. He’s into this spirituality stuff and will repeatedly say that his ex wife is his twin flame. You're being put on notice in an indirect way. His ex is always going to hold a place in his intimacy which will impact how much space you get in there. If you push, he most likely will withdraw. You're at the point where weak foundation relationships begin to fail... he hasn't moved on, thus your foundation with him has a huge and widening crack developing. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted March 11, 2018 Share Posted March 11, 2018 Yes he does talk about her a lot. He also talks about his most recent ex a lot. And in the midst of this I feel ‘where do I fit in?’ And that should be your cue to leave, OP. He is hung up on the past. Link to post Share on other sites
iVisa Posted March 11, 2018 Share Posted March 11, 2018 He doesn't deserve you if he isn't over her. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Seraphina87 Posted March 14, 2018 Author Share Posted March 14, 2018 Right. I have found out that there is one hell of a lot more to this story than he told me. Before he split with his wife He apparently spent all his evenings watching porn and then had sex with a prostitute. This caused the breakdown of his marriage in short. The reason he’s so into spirituality (I think) is that he’s trying to assuage his guilt about what he did. He was never honest with me about this and painted his wife as a difficult character who wouldn’t let him have the house valued so they could sell it. Well I don’t blame her to be quite honest. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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