justanotheroneofyou Posted March 17, 2018 Share Posted March 17, 2018 Well maybe this guy is serious. He does seem to be making the moves to show it. Just be prepared.... Somtimes people get so caught up in a fantasy that they think the AP is what they want more then life but then they get buyers remorse when the fantasy evaporates. when the fun of the chase is gone. when the fun of secrets is gone. Keep an eye out for that. If he goes back on this all and reconciles with his wife or sleeps with her cut him off. If this MM is all in for you you're one of the lucky ones. It usually doesn't work out that way. Good luck girl! She's one of the few, the rare ones, to be sure. I wouldn't say lucky as a relationship that begins this way hardly portends well with regard to trust issues. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Sampson Posted March 18, 2018 Share Posted March 18, 2018 (edited) The fact that he bought the home before marriage in some if not most states unless there is a prenuptial by her living and raising children together in said house she is entitled to the appreciation, use, and in some case 50/50. The fact that he moved out and she is living there will make her case even more easier. The marital home is much different that an investment property he owned prior to marriage they never lived in etc.. It was their HOME together. Think of it this way. She spent a good xxx number of years living together as a married couple in a marital home raising children together, not looking for, investing in, or spending money on a home herself. He might be entitled to separate out what his initial contribution to the home prior to marriage was but the appreciation, use, and investment was comingled. Divorce is not always cut and dry, and most of the time it is emotional and just depends on what you want your lawyer to fight for. Edited March 18, 2018 by Sampson Link to post Share on other sites
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