CantTakeMySmile Posted March 2, 2018 Posted March 2, 2018 No, because he has a son so he won't stay overnight. so you were dating 8 months and did not spend the night together?
Author ochyld Posted March 4, 2018 Author Posted March 4, 2018 so you were dating 8 months and did not spend the night together? No........
Lost03 Posted March 4, 2018 Posted March 4, 2018 I was in a relationship with someone for 10 months about 4 years ago. I never learned where he lived either. It turned out that he was married and I was The Other Woman. I would say if he has an issue bringing you where he lives, he is not being completely honest with you about something. May not necessarily be another woman but definitely not okay. 1
Mr. Lucky Posted March 4, 2018 Posted March 4, 2018 There's another twist to this... I'm of the belief that it doesn't matter why he's doing this, it's the "what" that's important. Simply put, failure to make you part of his life after dating that long is a dealkiller. Whether he's a secret agent or male exotic dancer, he's chosen to shut you out. As I'd guess you already know, time to move on... Mr. Lucky
d0nnivain Posted March 4, 2018 Posted March 4, 2018 All I can say is I would have been gone after 8 weeks of not knowing. Why did you put up with this for 8 months? Something is definitely shady. Since you met his family, maybe it wasn't a spouse / GF but it was still problematic & a good reason to break up. 1
Author ochyld Posted March 21, 2018 Author Posted March 21, 2018 Not knowing the truth has been quite unsettling. Any ideas on how I can find out?
PinkPampies Posted March 21, 2018 Posted March 21, 2018 Have you asked him why he never picks up the phone at night? Most people in relationships want to share parts of their life... their home, their job, ideas, aspirations, goals, Hobbies etc The fact that he refused to show you where he lives is your answer. And not answering his phone. And no pictures. He obviously has something to hide. And it ain’t good. Sorry, but he’s definitely attached. Believing otherwise is foolish. He wasn’t even willing to make concesssions so he doesn’t lose you. And thinks you’re disposable. That’s not how you deserve to be treated.
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