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mortensorchid

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Isn't that what the experience is like for many men on OLD? I think you'd have better results with men your RL social circle. I'm not lazy when it comes to reaching out to women, but I have never rejected anybody I was interested in because she was forthcoming. Some men like the chase, sure. Others take a rather practical approach to dating.

 

I'd say it's mostly men wanting the chase. I don't hand out my phone number unless they express interest first and ask for it. But if you just give it to them, as opposed to playing coy... boom. They're gone.

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I'd say it's mostly men wanting the chase. I don't hand out my phone number unless they express interest first and ask for it. But if you just give it to them, as opposed to playing coy... boom. They're gone.

 

To be perfectly honest, I would also be surprised if somebody just gave me her phone number. It's just an odd way to go about it. If she suggested getting together or was generally flirty it would be a very different question.

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