Rubix Cubed Posted January 22, 2018 Share Posted January 22, 2018 Which honestly kind of shows he’s not in this for the friendship. Stick with this. You got it. Nothing to guess about. If he was actually your friend he would be happy you found someone to go out with. He's just serving his time, thinking he will get a chance for a romantic relationship with you. He's pissed because he feels like he wasted his time and effort to get with you.If you do as you said and leave the ball in his court, honestly even if he still wants to be friends, he still thinks he's in line, and will still think you owe him. Best is to tell him there is ZERO chance of a romantic relationship with you and let him sort it out from there. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Obliviate Posted January 22, 2018 Author Share Posted January 22, 2018 Stick with this. You got it. Nothing to guess about. If he was actually your friend he would be happy you found someone to go out with. He's just serving his time, thinking he will get a chance for a romantic relationship with you. He's pissed because he feels like he wasted his time and effort to get with you.If you do as you said and leave the ball in his court, honestly even if he still wants to be friends, he still thinks he's in line, and will still think you owe him. Best is to tell him there is ZERO chance of a romantic relationship with you and let him sort it out from there. You’re absolutely right. We’ve talked a little bit here and there but there’s definitely an elephant in the room so to speak, and I think he might still honk he has a chance. And I’ve noticed Alex has backed off a little since his talk with Justin. So I definitely need to let Justin know where I stand. Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
usa1ah Posted January 23, 2018 Share Posted January 23, 2018 You’re absolutely right. We’ve talked a little bit here and there but there’s definitely an elephant in the room so to speak, and I think he might still honk he has a chance. And I’ve noticed Alex has backed off a little since his talk with Justin. So I definitely need to let Justin know where I stand. Thanks. Be careful when you do this. Link to post Share on other sites
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