unforgotten Posted December 30, 2017 Posted December 30, 2017 Ok, I just logged in after more than a year. Here is the original topic: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/503375-gigs-something-else Long story short. 3 years ago my ex gf broke up with me and left me for another guy. We were together for 7 years! She cheated on me, at least emotionally, got together with him a couple of times etc. She guilt tripped me, made me feel like a mess while she was all in love, smiling at my face while I was crying and begging her etc. Needless to say I was a complete mess for a very long time! She married him 5 months ago. And just a couple of days back they had a fight, he apparently smacked her and even cut her, then got drunk and hung himself in the basement. Yes, he committed a suicide. Apparently because she was cheating on him as well. Can you believe this? I was shocked and still am. 1
MJJean Posted December 30, 2017 Posted December 30, 2017 I've known two men who were cheated on and divorced or divorcing who committed suicide. It's sad, but the reality is that mentally healthy people cope and those who aren't mentally healthy don't. Sounds like your broken exGF got involved with a broken new man and tragedy was the result.
Marc878 Posted December 30, 2017 Posted December 30, 2017 Not your problem. You should be thankful she left. 2
Art_Critic Posted December 30, 2017 Posted December 30, 2017 When she contacts you; you absolutely don't reply back.. and how did you find out she got married and he committed suicide ? Be glad she left and took her drama elsewhere 1
preraph Posted December 30, 2017 Posted December 30, 2017 A friend of mine went through something similar. It's very traumatic. Don't make this your problem, though. She has friends and family to lean on. Don't connect with her. She sounds like she was drawn to his chaos because she's a little that way herself. You probably got the best of her.
amaysngrace Posted December 31, 2017 Posted December 31, 2017 My exH's best friend stole someone else's GF and he committed suicide too. My ex and his friend use to make fun of the whole thing by saying "hey Michael, how's the dirt taste?" The girl who cheated didn't stay with my ex"s friend for very long. The microwave he brought from his apartment when they moved in together had cockroaches in it or something. Gross.
SevenCity Posted December 31, 2017 Posted December 31, 2017 Glad that wasn’t you. Sad thing is she likely won’t take any responsibility for it. How are you feeling about the RL after all this time? I’m recovering from a 7 year rl myself and curious how you are doing.
CaliBabe Posted December 31, 2017 Posted December 31, 2017 Insane. Glad you were spared this kinda mess. Hope you're doing well now!
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