Poppy47 Posted December 28, 2017 Share Posted December 28, 2017 yes Daisy...turned that on me...turned the last 3 years on me, my fault for sticking around waiting on him...my fault I knew the risk Yes I know that all too well...but dang it, maybe one day he will take some responsibility for HIS actions too Good Morning Closure, You did hang around at your own risk and it was a risky business waiting for somebody who was all over the place. No he won't take responsibility for his actions cause he couldn't care less and he is not accountable to you in any way. You say he is interested in somebody else? I have read that if a MM leaves the wife, he rarely chooses the OW in the end. Best wishes with it all, Poppy. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author lookingforclosure Posted January 1, 2018 Author Share Posted January 1, 2018 And just like that...after he blocked me on his last social media site yesterday morning...I get this 12 hours last night around 8ish "Merry New Year. Hope it's a good one for you" Are you serious? WTH Link to post Share on other sites
Origin Posted January 2, 2018 Share Posted January 2, 2018 And just like that...after he blocked me on his last social media site yesterday morning...I get this 12 hours last night around 8ish "Merry New Year. Hope it's a good one for you" Are you serious? WTH Heh, this is comical. This is probably that phase where he will feel guilty so he will try and be nice, so you forgive him. Be careful so you don’t take his niceness for him wanting to be with you. Link to post Share on other sites
imsosad Posted January 2, 2018 Share Posted January 2, 2018 And just like that...after he blocked me on his last social media site yesterday morning...I get this 12 hours last night around 8ish "Merry New Year. Hope it's a good one for you" Are you serious? WTH This is a no brainer. If you guys are pretending to be chummy-buddy-friendly,than he is not a dickhead who used you as his Plan B and was ok with stringing you along. If he were, you wouldn't be exchanging holiday greetings, would you? He is doing this to feel good about himself. I hope you did not answer, and that he is now blocked from your email. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
springy Posted January 2, 2018 Share Posted January 2, 2018 And just like that...after he blocked me on his last social media site yesterday morning...I get this 12 hours last night around 8ish "Merry New Year. Hope it's a good one for you" Are you serious? WTH Just block him everywhere so you can move on from this drama. Start your NY off right. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author lookingforclosure Posted January 2, 2018 Author Share Posted January 2, 2018 This is a no brainer. If you guys are pretending to be chummy-buddy-friendly,than he is not a dickhead who used you as his Plan B and was ok with stringing you along. If he were, you wouldn't be exchanging holiday greetings, would you? He is doing this to feel good about himself. I hope you did not answer, and that he is now blocked from your email. I don't see anywhere in his message or mine in response on 12/18 where it would be considered chummy-buddy-friendly...but OK He pulled a dickhead move...period....NEXT Link to post Share on other sites
imsosad Posted January 2, 2018 Share Posted January 2, 2018 I don't see anywhere in his message or mine in response on 12/18 where it would be considered chummy-buddy-friendly...but OK He pulled a dickhead move...period....NEXT I did not mean you. I meant he was doing this to feel hood about himself. Link to post Share on other sites
Origin Posted January 2, 2018 Share Posted January 2, 2018 I did not mean you. I meant he was doing this to feel hood about himself. I understood what you were trying to say and I agree. It’s all about him feeling good about himself for what he did so he will try and sound buddy buddy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lookingforclosure Posted January 3, 2018 Author Share Posted January 3, 2018 Gotcha..I understand now Thanks guys Link to post Share on other sites
CantTakeMySmile Posted January 3, 2018 Share Posted January 3, 2018 did you respond? Link to post Share on other sites
Poppy47 Posted January 3, 2018 Share Posted January 3, 2018 And just like that...after he blocked me on his last social media site yesterday morning...I get this 12 hours last night around 8ish "Merry New Year. Hope it's a good one for you" Are you serious? WTH He was drunk Poppy 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Adoraxx Posted January 4, 2018 Share Posted January 4, 2018 I got a 9.00am New Year's wish too from xMM. He wrote: Happy new year. X I didn't respond. I'm sure he wasn't drunk when he wrote that because he's never drunk. But I think he wants some good ol' supply from me... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author lookingforclosure Posted January 4, 2018 Author Share Posted January 4, 2018 He was drunk Poppy If he was drunk at 8pm he started pretty darn early I did respond I mirrored what he said to me basically Happy New Year. Hope its a good one for you as well And I wasn't blocked it went through..although I had bet I was blocked so the jokes on me Link to post Share on other sites
goldengirl11 Posted January 5, 2018 Share Posted January 5, 2018 (edited) To those of you who got New Year messages from your MM/ex MM's - count yourself lucky, IMO! The best I got was being offered a phonecall at 7.30pm on NYE, after declining my invite and spending it on his own. Although his new MW (he replaced me with) was probably with her family. I wasnt surprised to not get a text from him after midnight (and didn't at Christmas either), despite my efforts - when was sent a "cheers, you too." At least you're being thought about ladies!! Edited January 5, 2018 by goldengirl11 Link to post Share on other sites
Taxed Posted January 5, 2018 Share Posted January 5, 2018 To those of you who got New Year messages from your MM/ex MM's - count yourself lucky, IMO! The best I got was being offered a phonecall at 7.30pm on NYE, after declining my invite and spending it on his own. Although his new MW (he replaced me with) was probably with her family. I wasnt surprised to not get a text from him after midnight (and didn't at Christmas either), despite my efforts - when was sent a "cheers, you too." At least you're being thought about ladies!! Why is validation important from people who use you for their own satisfaction, because they can and you allow it? Consider yourself lucky if you did not receive a Happy Breadcrumb. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Author lookingforclosure Posted January 5, 2018 Author Share Posted January 5, 2018 Consider yourself lucky if you did not receive a Happy Breadcrumb. ^^^^^yes..this would've been better to get nothing IMO 1 Link to post Share on other sites
FMW Posted January 5, 2018 Share Posted January 5, 2018 "Happy Breadcrumb". Ha! I love it. (I've felt happy to receive so many of those, so I feel entitled to laugh!) 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Poppy47 Posted January 5, 2018 Share Posted January 5, 2018 To those of you who got New Year messages from your MM/ex MM's - count yourself lucky, IMO! The best I got was being offered a phonecall at 7.30pm on NYE, after declining my invite and spending it on his own. Although his new MW (he replaced me with) was probably with her family. I wasnt surprised to not get a text from him after midnight (and didn't at Christmas either), despite my efforts - when was sent a "cheers, you too." At least you're being thought about ladies!! A phone call or a text is very easy to do. It doesn't really mean that much. Poppy 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author lookingforclosure Posted January 16, 2018 Author Share Posted January 16, 2018 16 NC Still as hard as the first for me Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted January 16, 2018 Share Posted January 16, 2018 And just like that...after he blocked me on his last social media site yesterday morning...I get this 12 hours last night around 8ish "Merry New Year. Hope it's a good one for you" Are you serious? WTH Why haven't you blocked him? Link to post Share on other sites
Author lookingforclosure Posted January 16, 2018 Author Share Posted January 16, 2018 Why haven't you blocked him? In his line of work...it doesn't matter if he's blocked or not...he can always get to me. Link to post Share on other sites
BourneWicked Posted January 17, 2018 Share Posted January 17, 2018 Why is validation important from people who use you for their own satisfaction, because they can and you allow it? Consider yourself lucky if you did not receive a Happy Breadcrumb. Ahhaha. I love this. I need a refrigerator magnet with this on it. Link to post Share on other sites
Matahari007 Posted January 24, 2018 Share Posted January 24, 2018 In MM response to you one of the comments he made that hit me was "never be beholden to me or another man for your contentment and joy". As much as his message may have hurt you I don't think he has ever spoken any more truth than that statement right there. He is telling you EVERYTHING that you need to know. DO NOT ever place your happiness on another person or man period. Love and place yourself 1st and make sure you are always priority and not "waiting" in the wings for someone to make up their mind. Its a new day, a new year, do not give this man anymore head space or precious years of your life. Block him completely and give yourself peace and closure because only YOU can give yourself that. Wishing you the best Closure! 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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