Gold Pile Posted November 21, 2017 Posted November 21, 2017 I've used many ploys in my dating life, but I always thought the open robe bit was for losers. Have any of your dates tried this with you? Have you ever tried it on your date?
chinadiary Posted November 21, 2017 Posted November 21, 2017 How about, the old open fur coat? You had any experience of that, of late? 1
basil67 Posted November 21, 2017 Posted November 21, 2017 I'm having visions of you looking like Hugh Heffner. Sadly, it's breakfast time here. I think if you've got the money, it won't matter if your robe is open or closed. Nor how impressive your naked body is...or isn't. 7
Highndry Posted November 21, 2017 Posted November 21, 2017 Since the old "open wallet" ploy isn't working ("Gold Pile," "fur coats"), I don't think the old "open robe" is going to wow them either. I'm just being honest, because if you were even remotely attractive in conjunction with that gold pile and all those fur coats, you wouldn't have the time to post here you'd be so busy beating the women off you. 2
Author Gold Pile Posted November 22, 2017 Author Posted November 22, 2017 I'm having visions of you looking like Hugh Heffner. Sadly, it's breakfast time here. I think if you've got the money, it won't matter if your robe is open or closed. Nor how impressive your naked body is...or isn't.Was my post not clear that I despise the robe bit? No Hef here. In fact I picture him using the old open robe ploy....yuk. What does Americares serve you for breakfast?
Author Gold Pile Posted November 22, 2017 Author Posted November 22, 2017 Since the old "open wallet" ploy isn't working ("Gold Pile," "fur coats"), I don't think the old "open robe" is going to wow them either. I'm just being honest, because if you were even remotely attractive in conjunction with that gold pile and all those fur coats, you wouldn't have the time to post here you'd be so busy beating the women off you.You misread my post, I despise the robe ploy. I'm a serial dater, I have more dates in a year than most have in their life. I don't exactly have to beat them off, but I do have to schedule carefully. I'm more than remotely attractive (ask my mirror). 1
Author Gold Pile Posted November 22, 2017 Author Posted November 22, 2017 How about, the old open fur coat? You had any experience of that, of late? I did have a date with an attractive Russian woman Saturday. I didn't spring the coat on her because it seems over the top for a 1st date. She did however have a fur hat. I'm 99% certain she liked me, so I'll be seeing her again.
HiCrunchy Posted November 22, 2017 Posted November 22, 2017 I actually have never heard of this before? What does it consist of? 2
CptInsano Posted November 22, 2017 Posted November 22, 2017 I actually have never heard of this before? What does it consist of? Are you sure that you want to know? 2
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted November 22, 2017 Posted November 22, 2017 In what context could you actually even do this? Are you a movie producer? 2
somanymistakes Posted November 22, 2017 Posted November 22, 2017 i don't know what this open robe bit is either, my best guess is coming up with a scene from the movie Carol?
Michelle ma Belle Posted November 22, 2017 Posted November 22, 2017 (edited) i don't know what this open robe bit is either, my best guess is coming up with a scene from the movie Carol? Personally I think it's a pervy move, male or female. Think Hugh Hefner. Old guy leaving his robe open thus exposing himself as a 'ploy' to seduce a young vulnerable woman Edited November 22, 2017 by Michelle ma Belle 1
mercy Posted November 22, 2017 Posted November 22, 2017 Are you sure that you want to know? Really, what is it??
mercy Posted November 22, 2017 Posted November 22, 2017 Personally I think it's a pervy move, male or female. Think Hugh Hefner. Old guy leaving his robe open thus exposing himself as a 'ploy' to seduce a young vulnerable woman Gross!!!! :sick: 1
Michelle ma Belle Posted November 22, 2017 Posted November 22, 2017 Personally I think it's a pervy move, male or female. Think Hugh Hefner. Old guy leaving his robe open thus exposing himself as a 'ploy' to seduce a young vulnerable woman Correction - Think Harvey Weinstein 8
Author Gold Pile Posted November 22, 2017 Author Posted November 22, 2017 In what context could you actually even do this? Are you a movie producer? Never did it myself. I suppose I'd say something about it being hot in here and needing to air out my junk.
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted November 22, 2017 Posted November 22, 2017 Never did it myself. I suppose I'd say something about it being hot in here and needing to air out my junk. But in what context would an average Joe even be in a robe with someone he wasn't already in a fairly close relationship with?
Author Gold Pile Posted November 22, 2017 Author Posted November 22, 2017 But in what context would an average Joe even be in a robe with someone he wasn't already in a fairly close relationship with?I take it that you're pretty formal in what you wear around town.
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted November 22, 2017 Posted November 22, 2017 I take it that you're pretty formal in what you wear around town. :lmao::lmao: 1
GemmaUK Posted November 23, 2017 Posted November 23, 2017 It's just the same as the 'willy out' ploy. It's never a pleasant sight to stroll back from the bar/toilet to find the guy you just met sitting there with his willy in his lap. I can confirm it still happens though........and doesn't work. 1
SolG Posted November 24, 2017 Posted November 24, 2017 (edited) It's just the same as the 'willy out' ploy. It's never a pleasant sight to stroll back from the bar/toilet to find the guy you just met sitting there with his willy in his lap. I can confirm it still happens though........and doesn't work. I've never ever heard of, nor seen this happen! Really? This thread reminds of a couple of stories... A friend of mine's H is a pilot. When he first started working with his current airline, he was told that on overnighters, if a hostie came to his hotel room wearing his/her uniform overcoat it was a signal that they were naked underneath and ready for fun. He went from initially being terrified of being put in such an awkward position as being propositioned by a colleague, to now being a bit miffed that it's never actually happened to him. We've concluded that it's probably an urban myth. The other is a PUA clip I watched on YouTube. This guy said that a 'sure fire' way to get a date into bed was to organise to rendezvous at his to then head out for dinner. Then be 'running late', open the door shirtless, with pants on, barefooted with wet hair... straight out of the shower style. Then apologize profusely, pour her a glass of wine (and leave the bottle with her) so she can relax while he finishes getting ready. Apparently for him this has resulted in many staying in vs going out dates. Bit more classy than the open robe manouver, but also more sneaky. And I'm pretty sure the results would vary dependant upon the condition of the exposed torso! Edited November 24, 2017 by SolG 3
sdraw108 Posted November 24, 2017 Posted November 24, 2017 It's just the same as the 'willy out' ploy. It's never a pleasant sight to stroll back from the bar/toilet to find the guy you just met sitting there with his willy in his lap. I can confirm it still happens though........and doesn't work. What on earth... I think I must have lived a sheltered life!! 2
todreaminblue Posted November 24, 2017 Posted November 24, 2017 i think robes on guys are a turn off for me anyway ...personally.....they remind me of pimps and pornos....open or closed...almost to repulsion......actually nah all the way there.....deb 1
somanymistakes Posted November 24, 2017 Posted November 24, 2017 The other is a PUA clip I watched on YouTube. This guy said that a 'sure fire' way to get a date into bed was to organise to rendezvous at his to then head out for dinner. Then be 'running late', open the door shirtless, with pants on, barefooted with wet hair... straight out of the shower style. Then apologize profusely, pour her a glass of wine (and leave the bottle with her) so she can relax while he finishes getting ready. Apparently for him this has resulted in many staying in vs going out dates. Bit more classy than the open robe manouver, but also more sneaky. And I'm pretty sure the results would vary dependant upon the condition of the exposed torso! That does sound a lot more appealing. It's a hint that sex is an option (and check out how sexy I look) without being gross or pushy and making the date feel super uncomfortable in the way that "BEHOLD MY JUNK" might.
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