dichotomy Posted November 24, 2017 Share Posted November 24, 2017 I worked out, got the 6 pack back, and started doing more things alone or with my friends. Going out. Going to parties. Big group camping trips. That sort of stuff. The stuff I enjoyed, but had often forgone. Sometimes so that SHE could go out and cheat on me. The market responded pretty quickly and it was clear that " I still had it." Perhaps not the healthiest way to respord confidence, but it worked. Particularly when some of the women who were interested were younger than my wife and attractive. Once I felt like I could at least go out and do the same thing she did, I no longer felt the need or urge to. I just needed to know that I COULD. After that, I took on a more healthy perspective, and just did things I liked because I liked them, and for no other reason. I realized that I wasn't the one who needed help with his confidence. She was. Once that realization took hold, I never looked back. This ! I had similar thoughts and approaches 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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