garysmith Posted October 31, 2017 Posted October 31, 2017 My ex told me that we're not friends just exes? What does that mean? Stranger with some memories?
Zahara Posted October 31, 2017 Posted October 31, 2017 Two people that had a relationship and now should move on from each other.
PegNosePete Posted October 31, 2017 Posted October 31, 2017 It means you're not friends, and have no reason to communicate any more. 1
Beachead Posted October 31, 2017 Posted October 31, 2017 Once you become exes, friendship is not possible. Not in the immediate future atleast. Deep down inside, the person who got dumped will always want to get back together and the person who did the dumping would be looking to move on with someone else. Knowing this, they would always have to keep the dumpee at a distance to prevent leading them on. That means watching what they say and do all the time. In short, they can't be themselves. The dumpee would eventually get frustrated by being when they don't get their way and the whole thing blows up in the end. If they continue to try friendship, they will eventually see their ex find someone else. The dumpee will be dropped. The whole thing blows up anyway. The outcome is the same no matter what. Having said that, there is always a possibility of friendship but only after a very long time after both people have moved on. It would take an unplanned neutral event to bring them together and should they want a friendship or something more by then, it will happen. 1
HumanMachine Posted October 31, 2017 Posted October 31, 2017 Gary.. based on this thread and your other one “ignored facetime”, I think it’s time to leave this woman alone.
Author garysmith Posted October 31, 2017 Author Posted October 31, 2017 Gary.. based on this thread and your other one “ignored facetime”, I think it’s time to leave this woman alone. LOL Oh I got that already. This woman will never hear from me again! I should have came to this forum sooner. Very informative. It's always good to hear from someone who is no invested in the situation. I'll still ask random questions when I'm feeling down. 1
HumanMachine Posted October 31, 2017 Posted October 31, 2017 LOL Oh I got that already. This woman will never hear from me again! I should have came to this forum sooner. Very informative. It's always good to hear from someone who is no invested in the situation. I'll still ask random questions when I'm feeling down. Good for you. Yes I feel much the same about this forum.. something bugging you about your ex but you don’t want to annoy your friends? Post here and receive support.
Highndry Posted October 31, 2017 Posted October 31, 2017 All the good advice is still available on your other thread, Gary. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/640756-ignored-facetime Did you actually contact her again? "We're not friends" = LEAVE ME ALONE. There is absolutely nothing left to the imagination on this. She broke up with you and wants no part of you in her life. You need to accept that for yourself as well as her. She is seeing you as a nuisance.
Author garysmith Posted October 31, 2017 Author Posted October 31, 2017 I did not contact her again! I was just remembering past conversations and hints she was giving me.
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