Miss Spider Posted September 2, 2017 Posted September 2, 2017 (edited) Yes but she hasn't responded to give him green light. I mean even if he's just being courteous I think she should be courteous back! Some guys are passive af.I want to share my text string from the guy I figured wasn't interested because he said "thanks for coming out" H:"Hey, I had a good time. Jitters and loud music aside lol. Thanks again for coming." I responded... because it's courteous??? M: Thank you. Sorry I was all over the place. I was nervous! H: Oh don't be, you were great or I was so aware of my own nerves that I didn't notice haha. I'd like to see you again, if it's possible. Iff op texts her convo could go like that. If she doesn't respond he'll assume not interested. Edited September 2, 2017 by Cookiesandough
Popsicle Posted September 2, 2017 Posted September 2, 2017 Too bad these things aren't simple like they should be. I acknowledge that I confused my last date. I even kissed him on the lips (a peck) when he had just gone for a good-bye hug. Why did I do that? I don't even know.... 2
Miss Spider Posted September 2, 2017 Posted September 2, 2017 (edited) Too bad these things aren't simple like they should be. I acknowledge that I confused my last date. I even kissed him on the lips (a peck) when he had just gone for a good-bye hug. Why did I do that? I don't even know.... Haha that's so cute. But yea we all have those awk moments ! Edited September 2, 2017 by Cookiesandough 1
limichelle Posted September 2, 2017 Posted September 2, 2017 My current boyfriend asked me for a second date five minutes into our first meeting. Lol I guess if you feel an instant connection it's different. OP: There is only one way to find out and that's by asking him out for a second date. Maybe he's preoccupied with the game so he's not taking the lead? Or maybe he isn't interested. You will never know unless you ask. The worst thing that could happen is he says no, then in that case you wish him luck and move on. Good luck! Oh and popsicle the most awkward experience I had was one time on a date I went in for a handshake and he went in for a hug. I accidentally ended up grabbing his crotch. : 4
mortensorchid Posted September 3, 2017 Posted September 3, 2017 I've been on more OLDs than I care to think about anymore. And this one did not sound like it was great. I've gotten a text from the man barely an hour or so after we had parted ways and he said along the lines of what he did. I respond back with "Thank you I did as well". And then?... Nothing else. Out of courtesy, I would respond with a "thank you I did as well" text, then see if he contacts you again. Chances are that you will text for another day or two, then he will go poof. He's not very interested based on what you said here. It's what it is. Move on. 1
Mjm1014 Posted September 3, 2017 Posted September 3, 2017 Okay coming from a guys point of view, and an active online dater.. I think he's most likely interested. If I'm not into someone, the date would last an hour or less..he chose to spend 4 hours with you, which is a very good sign..the date had to end at some point obviously. Also, for the fact he waited until your Uber showed up shows class on his end, and again most likely interest. If he talked a lot, that is also a very good sign. I wouldn't say it's a guarantee that he is interested, but I would say it's a high probability...just take it slow with him and don't have much of an expectation in the beginning. Lastly, don't base how the date went on whether you revived a kiss or not at the end of the night..I know I never kiss unless the vibes are good, and it's the right atmosphere. Good luck!
spiderowl Posted September 4, 2017 Posted September 4, 2017 Hmm, it sounds to me like he wasn't as enthused about the date as you were. You said you had a great time. If he felt the same, I'm suspect he would have tried to kiss you and would have followed up with what a great time he'd had. He would be keen to make sure you knew that he wanted to see you again. This kind of thing happens where one feels it went well and the other was good at conversing and keeping the atmosphere nice. I might be wrong and he might come back wanting another date but he seemed a bit cool to me.
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