basil67 Posted August 15, 2017 Posted August 15, 2017 Wait...this is the guy you've been chatting to online and have never met? The guy who says he talks with you too much? He's NOT your partner. He's just a nasty guy you know from online. 2
diddilybop Posted August 15, 2017 Posted August 15, 2017 (edited) He's NOT your partner. He's just a nasty guy you know from online. for real. chatting online frequently doesn't make him your partner. if you guys have actual concrete plans to meet, maybe it's something to consider but honestly, this kind of guy isn't even someone you want to be in a relationship with. seriously. NOT WORTH YOUR TIME. Edited August 15, 2017 by diddilybop 1
GemmaUK Posted August 16, 2017 Posted August 16, 2017 So he isn't your partner he is just an online person. He is probably saying the same kind of things about you to others. Just cut all contact - this is not a relationship and not something you would want to take to any kind of relationship level. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted August 16, 2017 Posted August 16, 2017 Ugh, stay away from this guy. I am Canadian and have plenty of Persian friends, coming from a city with a large Iranian immigrant community. His rude comments are not part of the culture. He is just a disgusting little punk, period. Also, he is not your partner. Based on your posting history, he's a guy you met online that already told you he talks to you too much. Where are your standards, girl? Forget him.
Author carmela Posted August 16, 2017 Author Posted August 16, 2017 for real. chatting online frequently doesn't make him your partner. if you guys have actual concrete plans to meet, maybe it's something to consider but honestly, this kind of guy isn't even someone you want to be in a relationship with. seriously. NOT WORTH YOUR TIME. We Skyped two days ago and said we will try to Skype every week from here on. He knows some of my friends in his city and he has talked to them about me. We plan on meeting in real life in the Fall. Idk, he seems to have made it serious.
Author carmela Posted August 16, 2017 Author Posted August 16, 2017 How old are you guys? I think part of it is age. He's 24, I'm 23. Maybe you're right.
ExpatInItaly Posted August 16, 2017 Posted August 16, 2017 We Skyped two days ago and said we will try to Skype every week from here on. He knows some of my friends in his city and he has talked to them about me. We plan on meeting in real life in the Fall. Idk, he seems to have made it serious. May I ask why you want to be with a guy who is this disrespectful and degrading towards women?
kendahke Posted August 16, 2017 Posted August 16, 2017 We Skyped two days ago and said we will try to Skype every week from here on. He knows some of my friends in his city and he has talked to them about me. We plan on meeting in real life in the Fall. Idk, he seems to have made it serious. He's not your boyfriend. This isn't a relationship. Relationships require in-person relating. He's just a dude you waste time with on Skype.
diddilybop Posted August 16, 2017 Posted August 16, 2017 (edited) We Skyped two days ago and said we will try to Skype every week from here on. He knows some of my friends in his city and he has talked to them about me. We plan on meeting in real life in the Fall. Idk, he seems to have made it serious. serious about WHAT? meeting or being your boyfriend? either way, a person you skype with but have never met isn't your boyfriend. also, haven't we all agreed that this guy isn't worth being in a relationship with? he's awful and a waste of your time. Edited August 16, 2017 by diddilybop
Gr8fuln2020 Posted August 16, 2017 Posted August 16, 2017 Wow. OP, how does he know your friends? Are these skype friends, so not really friends? He spoke to them face to face or more skyping? Why o why? You don't have a 'relationship', you have a forum/skype buddy who is rude, degrading...he may be a predator. Don't meet him. You asked if you seemed desperate....yes, you do. 3
sandylee1 Posted August 17, 2017 Posted August 17, 2017 I often wonder what the point of a LDR is. Meeting online is fine, but you need to be close enough in distance to meet and form a relationship.
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