Do i have the right to phone his mother?

[breadbin]

I wouldn't contact the mother, she probably knows already and you'd be taking a lot on yourself then for no reason. He won't change until he decides himself. Both you and his mother will only make it worse.

 

as for the sex question - i'm a man and sex doesn't feel right and that's 11 months from my last break up! more time is needed I guess!