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Why is my ex treating and spoiling his new girlfriend better than me?


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We had a relationship for 2 years and now he is in a new relationship with other girl. He has treated her in 2 months better than me in 2 years. He takes her to amazing places, post photos of her, gives her flowers and spends every moment that he can with her. He took her to a holiday in other country and he is even taking her to live with him in Spain for 3 months.

 

Is probably because she is more in love with her than he was of me?

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amaysngrace

It's probably that she is harder to win over because maybe she has higher standards but she's still getting him in the end and you know he's no prize.

 

She'll figure it out soon enough though. People rarely change.

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stillafool

How do you know what is going on in their relationship? Whoever is feeding you this info tell them to stop. It is not helping you to heal and get over this breakup. Yes they are in love. So what? Your time is coming.

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That is why when you're in a bad relationship you leave it and find yourself a bf/gf that will treat you right. Obviously she inspires something in him that you didn't. It was a good decision to break up. Now find yourself a man that will treat you the way you want to be treated.

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Everyone's compatibility will be different. They may be more suitable for each other than you and him was.

 

Don't take it to be a good thing or a bad thing. It is what it is.

 

My ex is more compatible with his wife then we were when we dated. I don't take it as she is better than me or that I'm a bad person.

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Your goal should be to not give a crap. Which is why you should ask friends not to update you on him and stay away from his social media and block him from yours so you are not tailoring everything hoping to impress him.

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You need to stop paying attention to what he's doing. You are broken up. He is of no concern to you anymore.

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Its pretty obvious he's madly in love with her. He wasnt with you.

 

It happens. Find someone new.

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