Author Marlo13 Posted April 27, 2017 Author Share Posted April 27, 2017 (edited) happy endings are sex works.......sex workers are known as hookers.....prostitutes...i have done both ...masseuse work and hooking.....prostitution...does she have condoms in the room and are they in a big box....in a drawer maybe.....honestly did she make you wear a dental dam if she did not...thats quite bad of her..... .......full nudity body slides..even partial nudity...is brothel worthy....they feel the same in a brothel as they do in a massage parlor....which by the way is another name for a brothel.....there is no distinction.....when sex acts are performed...... visceral is deep feeling .....has emotional and physical depth so it hits your gut put simply.....or viscera of abdominal origin......feelings that go deep in the body.... i often felt empathy and sympathy as a hooker....alot..empathy and sympathy originate from heart emotions....empathy and sympathy are what you have when you feel someones pain or you pity them....thats why they put me with newbies to escorts...virgins and inexperienced men or damaged troubled men....which were often the type of men who kept coming back to see me became my regulars.......i also got non english speaking men.....because i had that empathy .....i have a feeling your sex worker/masseuse.....gave you hr facebook for a reason......and im feeling she wanted you to know she was married......her husband by this thought...knows what she does.....the feelings you have are not reciprocated......she lets you go down on her........but kisses you on the cheek...she does have a barrier......with sex ...its work to her......even oral on her is probably work......which is something i never allowed..... escort girls have barriers they should not cross...walled up ...theres intimacy...and then theres sympathy ...and theres also the acting.....you are walled in the sympathy and or act........she is probably a nice person...not saying she isnt...she has blurred the lines...and that si goign to be trouble if she keeps it up......but...her job is her job and you wontcross over into anything more than a client.....who pays...im sorry....you are walled out...you dont knwo who she really is..you know the working woman...you dont know her heart,however much you think you do ...you do not...........i wish you well....deb No there is no condoms in the room in a big box and every room has proper skinny massage tables. From day 1 she never asked me if i wanted the bodyslides etc.... i asked her for it. Other wise i would of just got an ordinary massage deep tissue or whatever.... I asked her if she had a facebook , she didnt go out of her weay to give me it. Edited April 27, 2017 by Marlo13 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Marlo13 Posted April 27, 2017 Author Share Posted April 27, 2017 No there is no condoms in the room in a big box and every room has proper skinny massage tables. From day 1 she never asked me if i wanted the bodyslides etc.... i asked her for it. Other wise i would of just got an ordinary massage deep tissue or whatever.... I asked her if she had a facebook , she didnt go out of her weay to give me it. She did say text me when you like. she knows im not going to be back for a few months, and also has commented and liked a photo i posted on FB, i feel yes 60% is true of what u are saying and 40% its a different case and she does feel some things. I really doubt her husband knows what she does apart from giving clients regular massages, im not sure how i would feel being her husband knowing. how does a hookers husband cope???? Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted April 27, 2017 Share Posted April 27, 2017 (edited) No there is no condoms in the room in a big box and every room has proper skinny massage tables. From day 1 she never asked me if i wanted the bodyslides etc.... i asked her for it. Other wise i would of just got an ordinary massage deep tissue or whatever.... I asked her if she had a facebook , she didnt go out of her weay to give me it. does she give you hand relief.....use any form of protection if she does or just lets it go all over her hand and or towels..........curious now....when you asked for the body slides how much extra did she make you pay.......do you pay her...or the front desk or do you part pay her for extras and the rest at the desk.....does she have any certificates on her wall... she gave you her facebook knowing full well you would find out her martial status..... you want to believe that she is having feelings for you dont you...maybe i am totally wrong and she is.....she still however...has a husband...so....where are you wanting this arrangement to end up..i see some pretty serious consequences for you personally.....why not be honest with her.....and see where the cards fall.... when guys develop feelings is when trouble starts...with masseuse work or with escort work..you might have asked her about facebook...she gave it to you....even though she is married and you have done oral on her...why is it she did give you her facebook and friend you.......what do you feel she did??..i had a partner when i was escorting towards the end of my job.......he liked the money i made..thats how he handled it...we both got rotten drunk at the end of the day ..had loads of fair weather friends...top shelf alcohol he had drugs.....i drank myself to poisoned status........and pretended like our life was really cool.......he was more or less forced....into working for a brothel/strip club/massage parlor/gambolling den for the underworld..... he was an orphan had no income..... and i was young and alone........deb Edited April 27, 2017 by todreaminblue Link to post Share on other sites
caveman621 Posted April 27, 2017 Share Posted April 27, 2017 I'm sorry to tell you this. You say there is always a happy ending, and you pay her. She's a sex worker. I'm not judging, I'm just saying. And you have to keep it in that context. I used to go to strip clubs, but never had any illusions about what was going on. A pretty and shapely woman would pretend to like me as long as I gave her money. It was a business transaction. That's all it was. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Marlo13 Posted April 27, 2017 Author Share Posted April 27, 2017 does she give you hand relief.....use any form of protection if she does or just lets it go all over her hand and or towels..........curious now....when you asked for the body slides how much extra did she make you pay.......do you pay her...or the front desk or do you part pay her for extras and the rest at the desk.....does she have any certificates on her wall... she gave you her facebook knowing full well you would find out her martial status..... you want to believe that she is having feelings for you dont you...maybe i am totally wrong and she is.....she still however...has a husband...so....where are you wanting this arrangement to end up..i see some pretty serious consequences for you personally.....why not be honest with her.....and see where the cards fall.... when guys develop feelings is when trouble starts...with masseuse work or with escort work..you might have asked her about facebook...she gave it to you....even though she is married and you have done oral on her...why is it she did give you her facebook and friend you.......what do you feel she did??..i had a partner when i was escorting towards the end of my job.......he liked the money i made..thats how he handled it...we both got rotten drunk at the end of the day ..had loads of fair weather friends...top shelf alcohol he had drugs.....i drank myself to poisoned status........and pretended like our life was really cool.......he was more or less forced....into working for a brothel/strip club/massage parlor/gambolling den for the underworld..... he was an orphan had no income..... and i was young and alone........deb yes she gives me hand relief, no wipe it off my stomach afterwards with tissues, and hot towels to wipe off oil off body at the start i would pay her up front 45 bucks for half hour and any extra i was paying 70 and of course if i stayed longer it would increase, i dont recall seeing any certs on wall. I spose overtime in weeks or many months something would happen and il'd end up dating her... thats where i want this arrangement to end up, and at the same time i didnt really think up untill now if she was my partner how i would feel knowing that she gives hand releif and bodyslides to some clients. I would love to to be honest with her but as suspected and someone else mentioned i feel that would be rude since i know now that she is married or isnt it??????. I dont know what she felt she did that i had to ask her for her facebook, i just wanted it so i can stay connected with her while im away for few months and have those feelings for her, if i could i would rather go see her in her shop and rather sit down with a coffee instead of the massage. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Marlo13 Posted April 27, 2017 Author Share Posted April 27, 2017 does she give you hand relief.....use any form of protection if she does or just lets it go all over her hand and or towels..........curious now....when you asked for the body slides how much extra did she make you pay.......do you pay her...or the front desk or do you part pay her for extras and the rest at the desk.....does she have any certificates on her wall... she gave you her facebook knowing full well you would find out her martial status..... you want to believe that she is having feelings for you dont you...maybe i am totally wrong and she is.....she still however...has a husband...so....where are you wanting this arrangement to end up..i see some pretty serious consequences for you personally.....why not be honest with her.....and see where the cards fall.... when guys develop feelings is when trouble starts...with masseuse work or with escort work..you might have asked her about facebook...she gave it to you....even though she is married and you have done oral on her...why is it she did give you her facebook and friend you.......what do you feel she did??..i had a partner when i was escorting towards the end of my job.......he liked the money i made..thats how he handled it...we both got rotten drunk at the end of the day ..had loads of fair weather friends...top shelf alcohol he had drugs.....i drank myself to poisoned status........and pretended like our life was really cool.......he was more or less forced....into working for a brothel/strip club/massage parlor/gambolling den for the underworld..... he was an orphan had no income..... and i was young and alone........deb She could of just said no i dont have a facebook, if i was in her shoes and i had a client ask for facebook and i felt nothing much of her with no interest just purely business i would of said no Link to post Share on other sites
Telemachus Posted April 27, 2017 Share Posted April 27, 2017 We humans are the ultimate self-deceived creatures. I read your posting, commented on it, and have read all the subsequent comments and your comments on them. You've rejected every independent assessment (wise and worldly advice from many), and your additional comments indicate that you're impervious to the truth of the situation. Your thinking falls into one of two categories, both self-deception: It's true because you want it to be true; and it's true because you believe it to be true. If your fantasies are much better than reality, then continue to enjoy living in a fantasy world of your own creation. Perhaps reality is over-rated. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Marlo13 Posted April 27, 2017 Author Share Posted April 27, 2017 We humans are the ultimate self-deceived creatures. I read your posting, commented on it, and have read all the subsequent comments and your comments on them. You've rejected every independent assessment (wise and worldly advice from many), and your additional comments indicate that you're impervious to the truth of the situation. Your thinking falls into one of two categories, both self-deception: It's true because you want it to be true; and it's true because you believe it to be true. If your fantasies are much better than reality, then continue to enjoy living in a fantasy world of your own creation. Perhaps reality is over-rated. No you are along with the majority are looking at this black and white, if you read properly above I stated I agree with %60 of is true and %40 not being a different case to others, i am not a complete idiot with no life experience , I was there week in week out , I spent the time with her and could see and feel something past a fantasy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Marlo13 Posted April 29, 2017 Author Share Posted April 29, 2017 Should i just be honest with her as "todreaminblue'' suggested. I just want to tell her how i feel, i just need this weight off my shoulders so i can move on and feel better, but not sure how to go about it anyones thoughts ' '? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted April 29, 2017 Share Posted April 29, 2017 Since you think we're all nuts in our unflattering opinion about her true job, the next time she gives you a happy ending, tell her you are developing feelings for her & ask her on a date. She will either shut you down hard or accept & bleed you dry. Best wishes. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted April 29, 2017 Share Posted April 29, 2017 you seem like a good guy at heart level you have blinkers on though..... and its a shame......ask her, tell her the truth its the only way really...... and i hope she has an honest heart......and not to be in it for the moeny with you to effectively bleed you out of pocket (a true rorting woman) i hope that she has real empathy in regards to your feelings and lets you go...or you feel strong enough to end it yourself...i wish you well...deb Link to post Share on other sites
Author Marlo13 Posted April 29, 2017 Author Share Posted April 29, 2017 you seem like a good guy at heart level you have blinkers on though..... and its a shame......ask her, tell her the truth its the only way really...... and i hope she has an honest heart......and not to be in it for the moeny with you to effectively bleed you out of pocket (a true rorting woman) i hope that she has real empathy in regards to your feelings and lets you go...or you feel strong enough to end it yourself...i wish you well...deb Would it be better to say I won't be coming back again because of my feelings blah blah....etc.... so effectively me ending it before I go back?? Instead of just saying I have these feelings for her ? Then she can either say (A) I am married I'm sorry (B) I have feelings also (but I'll still bleed you dry) © sorry I'm going to let you go. Or (d) I have feelings also but I'm unhappy with marriage Oh my god am I overthinking this ! Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted April 29, 2017 Share Posted April 29, 2017 I'm having trouble imagining what she could possibly tell you to discourage you that you don't already know, i.e., that she's a prostitute and that she's married. Is she going to have to have her pimp or husband beat you up for you to accept reality? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Marlo13 Posted April 29, 2017 Author Share Posted April 29, 2017 I'm having trouble imagining what she could possibly tell you to discourage you that you don't already know, i.e., that she's a prostitute and that she's married. Is she going to have to have her pimp or husband beat you up for you to accept reality? Ahh yeah your response once again is unhelpful and some what immature Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted April 29, 2017 Share Posted April 29, 2017 Right back at ya. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Marlo13 Posted May 4, 2017 Author Share Posted May 4, 2017 Quote: Originally Posted by todreaminblue View Post you seem like a good guy at heart level you have blinkers on though..... and its a shame......ask her, tell her the truth its the only way really...... and i hope she has an honest heart......and not to be in it for the moeny with you to effectively bleed you out of pocket (a true rorting woman) i hope that she has real empathy in regards to your feelings and lets you go...or you feel strong enough to end it yourself...i wish you well...deb Would it be better to say I won't be coming back again because of my feelings blah blah....etc.... so effectively me ending it before I go back?? Instead of just saying I have these feelings for her ? Then she can either say (A) I am married I'm sorry (B) I have feelings also (but I'll still bleed you dry) © sorry I'm going to let you go. Or (d) I have feelings also but I'm unhappy with marriage Oh my god am I overthinking this ! Link to post Share on other sites
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