firefly123 Posted February 9, 2017 Posted February 9, 2017 (edited) Hi, So my bf of 1.5 years decided to break up with me after we've been long distance for a while. Reason being I was making him frustrated that I couldn't make my mind up about moving to his country (USA). I was really upset about it, and I said I was sorry for worrying and that I would happily move to the USA now and that was my final decision. However, he said that his feelings had changed and it was better to move on. I sent him a card that said something along the lines of: I am sorry I've been indecisive and for hurting you. I was worried that I would be reliant on you, and I all I wanted to be was to be a useful partner. We make a good team (and I listed some great things we did) and then I said stuff about I would happily move to the US and if he was willing to give us another chance I could visit him next month and I would be in for the long haul. any chance it could work? I know that he wants to settle down, and the only thing that was blocking things was me being uncertain about moving. i emphasised that I was happy to move and how much I loved him. If not, I am still okay. I am strong. I can definitely get on with my life. I thought that it would be worth a last ditch attempt at getting back together. < previous threads linked for context: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/long-distance-relationships/608756-30y-female-should-i-sacrifice-my-life-move-usa-probable-fiance and http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/610495-does-matter-if-he-has-low-eq-if-he-good-man-inside > Edited February 9, 2017 by a LoveShack.org Moderator added links to previous threads ~6
d0nnivain Posted February 9, 2017 Posted February 9, 2017 It's your best shot, short of showing up on his doorstep. We regret more in life the chances we don't take. I can't predict the happy outcome you seek but at least you tried. 3
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