smackie9 Posted February 6, 2017 Posted February 6, 2017 You're incredibly perceptive...gosh. He is an ex-con. I didn't really want to bring that up. I just started reading your post but wanted to say that really quick. We didn't have to know he was and we all instinctively knew you should run away from this guy as fast as you can.... 2
stillafool Posted February 6, 2017 Posted February 6, 2017 If you are around mostly men and work around mostly men you should not have a problem meeting another man.
elaine567 Posted February 6, 2017 Posted February 6, 2017 Yes, women getting the name of every guy they have slept with tattooed on their skin, sounds like a great idea...
Author callmesally Posted February 6, 2017 Author Posted February 6, 2017 If you are around mostly men and work around mostly men you should not have a problem meeting another man. 1)...the "males" I work with aren't all my peers. 2)I never said I had a problem meeting men... I don't try dating everybody (anybody really) that I work with...and I can't/won't date every man who comes on to me. I just got stopped walking to my office floor...and at the parking lot... naaaa. I'm sure most women don't have problems meeting men. It's whether or not those men are our preference. 1
Author callmesally Posted February 6, 2017 Author Posted February 6, 2017 Yes, women getting the name of every guy they have slept with tattooed on their skin, sounds like a great idea... Right...lol. Crazy thing is people actually do that. I never have, never will.
curiouslysearching Posted March 20, 2017 Posted March 20, 2017 i met a guy from online dating who seemed super cool and sweet. We met, the first night was good but after that he got weird, a little bit in the way that you describe this guy. What i ended up doing, for my own safety, was phasing out. I didn't feel like he would have taken it well if i went nc with no explanation, as others have suggested. Unless you are in this position, you don't know how scary it can be. My advice is to definitely break it off with him but tell him you're open to keep in contact, and don't want to just stop talking to him. Then slowly talk yo him less and less. This is my advice only if you think he's crazy (sounds like it) and don't know what he's capable of. You don't want to ignore him and have him in your driveway when you're leaving for work, or showing up and bothering you. no stalkers
preraph Posted March 20, 2017 Posted March 20, 2017 You have to tell him you never want to have any contact from him again, and you need to do it in writing in case he becomes a problem so you can prove you told him just in case he won't leave you alone and you have to go to the law. I recommend texting him and then blocking him on all social media, and I recommend you stay with someone or at a hotel for a couple of days. He's nuts, really. He thinks he owns you now. I just read that he's an ex-con. Contact police and ask them if this gives you any hope of getting a restraining order with only the information you now have. I doubt it, but it's worth a call. Maybe he's on probation and a verbal threat is enough.
smackie9 Posted March 21, 2017 Posted March 21, 2017 This thread died back in February...the 6th! Check your dates before posting. OP long gone into the sunset. 1
grays Posted March 21, 2017 Posted March 21, 2017 This thread died back in February...the 6th! Check your dates before posting. OP long gone into the sunset. It was all worth it just for the use of the word "stalkerlicious"!!! I am going to be working that into conversation soon.
emsx0x Posted March 21, 2017 Posted March 21, 2017 This guy is seriously mentally unstable. Run as fast as you can. Block his number asap.
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