elaine567 Posted December 18, 2016 Posted December 18, 2016 I'd say, we're good. Trying to clean the mess, he's attentive. We talked about my suspicions of the baby, he said he will get the paternity test for sure - it's difficult for him because he loves the baby as his own... He still believes he is the biological father, though. His ex started giving problems, she wants the full custody, she doesn't let him to see the baby as often, this part is all messed up. It will always be "messed up". You have got yourself involved in a mess. Now you have achieved "legitimacy", she doesn't want you or any other woman he may get involved with near her baby. Everything was fine when I guess she thought there was a chance he may come back. She tolerated you as you were not in on the "secret", "she and he" vs "you" but now you know the "secret" and are still sticking around, it has all become more "serious" - it is now "you and he" vs "her" so she ain't playing ball no longer. Women are often very territorial. If he finds he is NOT the baby's father, do not be surprised if he then blames you for "messing things up" and interfering... 2
Author kckc Posted April 5, 2017 Author Posted April 5, 2017 Long story short. They are going through divorce and paternity test revealed that apparently, he is not the biological father... Honestly, he is truly devastated. Difficult time.
coolheadal Posted April 5, 2017 Posted April 5, 2017 Long story short. They are going through divorce and paternity test revealed that apparently, he is not the biological father... Honestly, he is truly devastated. Difficult time. I must say I didn't get into this story until now. You have stuck it out very well I must say. I had a woman that was married also she still married too. She has 4 grown kids and 3 grand kids, an elderly mom and her younger bother all in one house. Ex left after she told him too because he was sleeping around on her. But she had let him come back to her house and bed for several months. Again she can because yes they're still married. Today she told me she will get the divorce but she's such a liar. I told her we can't have anything together can stay friends only. But I can't fit into her complex life. I just don't see myself there. You seem to be able to do just that.. Bravo
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