Wondering2426 Posted November 21, 2016 Posted November 21, 2016 This is my original story: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/600429-ex-left-another-girl-but-has-indecisiveness-issues So long story short, a month after everything that had happened, his mom finally returned my stuff to me. This is nice a part from the fact I got only half of my jewelry back, and my diamond earrings were no where to be found. Naturally of course I contacted her back inquiring. Well that was yesterday. Today she contacted me saying that he is wanting two of the most expensive video games we have, as well as one of the gaming systems we had split equally to buy. As long as dividing all of the video games up "fairly". I am frankly tired of dealing with his mom. I am well past the point of wanting to hear from him or get back together with him especially considering this is how he is acting, being 25. Heavens sake I never even got my parents involved with anything and I am 3 years younger than him. I also think, you know, if you go and break up with me and then a day later start dating a girl you were talking to throughout the last month of our relationship I feel like you don't deserve to get anything that we split to buy. But obviously I am not going to be unreasonable either. Sorry everyone, I feel like I am ranting haha. But I do need advice. I ignored her message about when and where we should meet up to split the games. How can I get it across to her without being rude that her son should maybe man up and directly contact me if he is wanting anything at all. I do not want to be a b**** but honestly, it's been a month now and I am tired of the drama and am wanting to move on already.
Miss Clavel Posted November 21, 2016 Posted November 21, 2016 tbh, as soon as i saw the words, ex, mommy and video games i decided that you are well shut of him. before you give his mommy his stuff you can ask her who's going to "buy out" the games you went halves on. if you can't bring yourself to do that then just give what you think is fair. it's worth it to be rid of him. you can do better.
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