Keepingitreal Posted November 9, 2016 Posted November 9, 2016 Hello all! I met a guy online. Have been messaging and texting the last 4 days. Two days ago he makes a date for tonight. I say yes. Yesterday he asked what kind of food I would prefer. I said Mexican sounds good. He suggested a particular restaurant and asked if I've ever been there. I said yes and they have good food. He said he is looking forward to meeting me. Here's the thing. That was the last communication. That was yesterday morning. Haven't heard from him regarding time to meet tonight. It's 10:20 am now. Should I still go out with him I if he contacts me at some point today? Or should I say no since I didn't hear from him regarding a specific time to meet. Should there be a "cutoff" time for me? Am I making too much of a big deal about this? Argh! This whole dating thing is so confusing to me! Thanks!
Sand to Glass Posted November 9, 2016 Posted November 9, 2016 First date. Relax. Ask what time he'd like to meet, or set a time yourself. If/when responds, go. If he doesn't, make other plans tonight, and move on.
Larryville Posted November 9, 2016 Posted November 9, 2016 I’m kinda generational on this. If you are in your 20’s or so, younger then chill, don’t know the schedule transportation of a young dude, work, school ect. IF dude is older established supposedly responsible older adult hell no. No excuse for that. Tells me just lining up dates thru the week and does not value your time. Thing I don’t think is cool (again provided he is older) Have been (only) messaging and texting the last 4 days Not cool to me, but hey gruff opinion of an old dude
Survivor12 Posted November 9, 2016 Posted November 9, 2016 For heaven's sake, shoot him a text & ask (or suggest) a time.
ChickiePops Posted November 9, 2016 Posted November 9, 2016 There doesn't seem to be anything wrong here to me. He probably waited to give you a time because he wanted to confirm the date on the day of. Sounds like something I would do honestly. But if you're freaking out, just ask.
hippychick3 Posted November 9, 2016 Posted November 9, 2016 I don't see what the big deal is. It's still morning time for you and the date is tonight. You talked yesterday. Just assume he'll get in touch with you sometime before tonight to solidify the exact time. I think you're acting way too uptight and high maintenance here.
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