Jones19 Posted July 12, 2005 Posted July 12, 2005 Well i met this girl when i was out Saturday night she is drop dead gorgeous she is kinda out of my league i keep thinking to myself but she likes me . Anyways we met up Sunday for a bit and i took her out last night we held hands and kissed and talked and got to know each other we had a great time. We ain't going out-as such yet because she goes away next Tuesday for 2 weeks and then when she gets back that day i go away for 2 weeks sodz law i know. so we decided just to kinda go out but wait until the hols are over. Anywaz the reason for my thread is its her birthday next Monday and i don't know what to do should i buy her something? I'm gonna get a card but I'm not sure about the present idea. I thought about on Sunday taking her out for the day and saying this is kinda my birthday present to you does that sound OK? What would you do?
westernxer Posted July 12, 2005 Posted July 12, 2005 I'd slip out of town and come back the day after. Just send her a text message saying happy birthday. No gift, no special date... not this early.
Merin Posted July 12, 2005 Posted July 12, 2005 I think it's fine to get her a bday card and take her out to lunch on Sunday...
Cecelius Posted July 12, 2005 Posted July 12, 2005 Agreed with westernxer. A pleasant nod, email or whatever ("..by the way, happy birthday...") in recognition, nothing else. Anything more will only hurt things
alphamale Posted July 12, 2005 Posted July 12, 2005 Originally posted by Jones19 Well i met this girl when i was out Saturday night What would you do? So JONES19....you've known this woman for 3 whole days and you are thinking about getting her a b-day present. NO....don't get her sheeyot. A card would be just fine, thank you. At this rate you'll be buying her a Jaguar after 30 days of knowing her. Play it cool man.
A Fly onThe Wall Posted July 12, 2005 Posted July 12, 2005 Just a card is the only way to go .. Originally posted by alphamale At this rate you'll be buying her a Jaguar after 30 days of knowing her. She will have your Ballz on the Mantel in a jar and you'll have to ask her to use 'em
Author Jones19 Posted July 12, 2005 Author Posted July 12, 2005 Ok cheers all just gonna get her a card
CurvyGurl Posted July 12, 2005 Posted July 12, 2005 Don't try too hard. Since you know about it, you can't be an @ss and ignore it. Get her a card, take her to lunch, the same as you'd do for a friend. She doesn't deserve less consideration simply because you spent some time alone with her.
Cecelius Posted July 12, 2005 Posted July 12, 2005 CurvyGurl is absolutely right. The way to treat someone you have a dating /sexual interest in is just like a friend... Seriously, mate. Card. Nothing else.
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