huygenss Posted October 10, 2016 Posted October 10, 2016 I have no idea what's going on... Well maybe I always think of a worst scenarios, but in that case it's seems like the most reasonable explanation to my situation. So... Is it that she just doesn't give a hoot about me? There's this girl from my school. I like her so much and she just doesn't get out of my mind. We had our first conversation in September, just a brief talk on a bus stop. Since then we talked a few more times. We see each other at school but there aren't many opportunities to talk there. So I invited her for a coffee (via text) during a time where we didn't see each other on this bus stop and I just couldn't wait any more. She replied that it's a great idea but she doesn't have much time for it after school (which seemed legit, because she lives quite far from school). Besides she suddenly became much more talkative after my invitation so I thought that it isn't a bad sign after all. After few days I came up with an idea. I bought two carryout coffees and waited for her after school. Then we went to this bus stop and talked. Nothing more came out of this coffee but all things considered I thought we both enjoyed it. It was on Friday. Now... I texted her yesterday. And it's been 26 hours now without a reply, even though my message is marked as "Seen". It happened before but never to a first "welcome" message. She used to not reply but after few messages and I didn't panic because I also sometimes don't respond to people, not because I don't want to talk to them, just because there's nothing more to say. But now... I just don't get it. How come she hasn't replied after that Friday. I thought that everything was heading towards a right direction and now I'm so messed up. I don't want to write her more messages not to be needy or sth. But I just don't understand this situation.
smackie9 Posted October 10, 2016 Posted October 10, 2016 You didn't mess up....she decided she is not interested. Stop contacting her, she is giving you the button. there is nothing unusual about this.
courtney_kay Posted October 10, 2016 Posted October 10, 2016 Yeah, it doesn't sound like she is interested unfortunately. Girls don't make up excuses not to see guys if they are actually interested in them. Sure maybe she lives far from school, but she could have offered a better time or activity that better fits her schedule. That combined with the fact that she is ignoring your text leads me to believe she's not into you as anything more than a friend.
Author huygenss Posted October 10, 2016 Author Posted October 10, 2016 Yea, that's what I thought and still I asked you that question, knowing what's the answer. I hate that. It's like the worst feeling ever... Still, thanks for replies.
courtney_kay Posted October 10, 2016 Posted October 10, 2016 Yeah I'm sorry, I know rejection sucks especially when you start to become really infatuated with a person. We've all been there. But better to realize it now than later down the line when you become more emotionally invested in the girl.
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