Sgthaytham Posted October 7, 2016 Posted October 7, 2016 We had a date 2 weeks ago and she showed me how messed up her phone is. It wouldn't even let her send a text to her friend so she had to use mine. I'm not sure whether it's hard for her to receive them either. She takes ages to respond to texts. Once it took her 24 hours and she said: "I'm so sorry for taking so long to answer [...]". This time, she has replied in over 24 hours. Last week I asked whether she'd like to grab dinner with me. I got a text from her which read: "I would love to, but I'm not going to be here. Are you free next weekend". I thought that even though this was a letdown, she did offer another date. So the issue is that I haven't heard from her since Wednesday. Should I assume she isn't interested anymore?
smackie9 Posted October 7, 2016 Posted October 7, 2016 It's the weekend, if you don't hear from her, it's not worth the hassle. IMO when a girl is really into you she will stop at nothing to be in contact or will make time to see you over anything else. She's not that girl.....
scooby-philly Posted October 7, 2016 Posted October 7, 2016 So OP.... Where did the conversation stop? If she said let's do this weekend and you said yes, then the norms of conversation would dictate that she then needs to respond. At this point, even if she was waiting for you to respond and say "great, let's meet on xxx at yyyy or even just offer her a few choices.....then it's still on her if you had the last word and there hasn't been communication since. Obviously, a lot depends on how you met, blah, blah blah. And there are plenty of people who confess to being "ready to date" but they're really not ready for a myriad of reasons. Bottom line - if you like her....give her 2-3 options. Since it's already Friday late morning, give her something like "Tonight or Saturday night....Saturday or Sunday for coffee or another lunchtime/early afternoon activity and then one night next week. Then leave it at that. Clearly puts the ball in her court, leaves her with options....and then don't respond until she clearly responds to you - not just a "yes" but a yes with a choice and a conscious thought behind the message.
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