mortensorchid Posted October 5, 2016 Posted October 5, 2016 I went to my afternoon job in a suburb nearby, and I called a friend who lived only a few blocks away. She and I had an outing a few months ago and I owed her a bit of money from the trip. She said she was on her way out the door to work and could only stop long enough for the cash to change hands, I said okay that's fine as I had other things to do. We exchanged, promised a catch up later, and I went back to the car. I was unsure how to get back to the highway so I plugged in my home address into my GPS, then looked at some of the streets nearby. One street name I recognized even though I had never driven on it, it was the next block over from my friend's house. I went down it in my car and saw ... Someone. Or at least, I think it was someone. It was the hot math teacher I had a thing for and was rejected by two years ago. For more information, see this thread ... http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/dating/585424-why-do-i-spy-him I see someone who I thought was him, not realizing he lived so close to my friend. And then I said "What the hell are you doing?!?!? GET OUT OF HERE!" And I did. He (if it was he) did not see me. I felt ridiculous. But now knowing that my friend lives so close, I will always be tempted. And yes, of course I looked up where he lived so that I would know which is how I knew where he lived. No one needs to tell me why I did what I did, I was bored, lonely, not taking rejection well even after all this time, etc. I won't do it again, I just had to say to someone and it might as well be strangers who I post on a public forum to.
ja123 Posted October 6, 2016 Posted October 6, 2016 If it was two years ago, then you'll likely not revert back to old behaviour. You'll think about him the next couple of times that you're at your friend's house, then it'll fade. You just need to do other, positive things for yourself and not dwell on it.
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