floatinglotus Posted July 8, 2005 Posted July 8, 2005 Hi Everyone, Just a quick question. Who reads/participates in these forums? Are most OW/OMs (or past OW/OMs) or betrayed spouses? Thanks.
LucreziaBorgia Posted July 8, 2005 Posted July 8, 2005 In my past, I have always been the one cheating or the OW that a person was cheating with. I was ruthless, and hurt a lot of people in my time. That's not something I'm proud of. I was cheated on once before I was married, and it was pretty bad.
tiki Posted July 8, 2005 Posted July 8, 2005 Past OW/MW. Four years under the belt. I'd help anyone that would listen.
TUDOR Posted July 8, 2005 Posted July 8, 2005 I'm perfect so I come here to see what kinds of mistakes other people make.
Owl Posted July 8, 2005 Posted July 8, 2005 Betrayed spouse here. But I agree with Tiki's comment above...here to help anyone who's willing to listen.
tiki Posted July 8, 2005 Posted July 8, 2005 Originally posted by gtab I'm the OW That's news to me!!!
TUDOR Posted July 8, 2005 Posted July 8, 2005 Originally posted by tiki That's news to me!!! That's what I was thinking....should we expect a thread any time soon gtab?
LittleMiss Posted July 8, 2005 Posted July 8, 2005 I have been the OW for a long time now. He left his wife almost a year ago and we have been living together since. I posted about it when I first registered with this forum. That's the reason I came here. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?threadid=46613 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?threadid=48482
scratch Posted July 8, 2005 Posted July 8, 2005 It looks like we have betrayed men, betrayed women, and other women. Do others sense that there are no "other men" posting here? If so, why?
TUDOR Posted July 8, 2005 Posted July 8, 2005 Originally posted by gtab Seems that everyone has their little secrets If that ain't the truth!
Author floatinglotus Posted July 9, 2005 Author Posted July 9, 2005 Originally posted by LucreziaBorgia In my past, I have always been the one cheating or the OW that a person was cheating with. I was ruthless, and hurt a lot of people in my time. That's not something I'm proud of. I was cheated on once before I was married, and it was pretty bad. Hi LucreziaBorgia What was your turning point? When did you decide enough was enough and moved on to something better?
kkat Posted July 9, 2005 Posted July 9, 2005 I've been the OW/ex-OW for two years with a man I lived with a decade ago.
izzybelle Posted July 9, 2005 Posted July 9, 2005 ex OW ... a little over a year into the recovery process!
LucreziaBorgia Posted July 9, 2005 Posted July 9, 2005 Originally posted by floatinglotus Hi LucreziaBorgia What was your turning point? When did you decide enough was enough and moved on to something better? It happened quite by accident! First came baby, then came hubby, then over the years came a deep and profound understanding of each other and full acceptance for who we both are (for better or worse) for ourselves and for each other as we grew as a family. I'm not perfect. Neither is he. But we are perfect for each other. You can see a bit of what I'm talking about here. For once in my life I found someone I didn't want to cheat on. Same for him, as well. The openness we have between each other contributes greatly to that.
lynnered Posted July 10, 2005 Posted July 10, 2005 OW of 4 years , hes leaving in sept in semi NC until he leaves i work for a major company in my state , own my own home , no kids , 27 years young , i go to school 4 days a week , female, thats about it .
erika2610 Posted July 11, 2005 Posted July 11, 2005 Ex-Ow.. year and a half into the recovery process
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