soph-walker Posted September 26, 2016 Posted September 26, 2016 Hello LoveShackers. Having my online dating profiles viewed and liked by a guy who snubbed me some months ago after a few dates. It's winding me up a little...do I leave it be or send a 'stop being creepy' message?
Toodaloo Posted September 26, 2016 Posted September 26, 2016 Don't bother. Its just another flakey one.
Author soph-walker Posted September 26, 2016 Author Posted September 26, 2016 Don't bother. Its just another flakey one. It's every so often that he does this. I'd just like him to stop
Bialy Posted September 26, 2016 Posted September 26, 2016 Hide or block his profile. All online dating sites have that option. There is no need to go down the drama queen route. 6
Author soph-walker Posted September 26, 2016 Author Posted September 26, 2016 Hide or block his profile. All online dating sites have that option. There is no need to go down the drama queen route. No drama here. I've blocked before, but he creates new profiles.
SwordofFlame Posted September 26, 2016 Posted September 26, 2016 No drama here. I've blocked before, but he creates new profiles. Than block again and again and again. 3
Versacehottie Posted September 26, 2016 Posted September 26, 2016 yeah he's obviously trying to get you to talk to him or a reaction. Don't give him one. Ignore 1
Bialy Posted September 26, 2016 Posted September 26, 2016 No drama here. I've blocked before, but he creates new profiles. Someone did that to me once. I would see that he viewed my profil with 2-3 different names over the course of a few months, but I'd never click on the profile. I also never hid or blocked his profiles either. I just ignored completely. That worked like a charm. And, even if he did go ahead and view again, I still wouldn't bother viewing the profile or blocking/hiding. Sometimes ignoring completely and treating the guy like a poor crazy person is an effective route. 4
Toodaloo Posted September 26, 2016 Posted September 26, 2016 There are some weird people out there. Just keep ignoring him. He clearly has problems. Let him sort them out. 3
smackie9 Posted September 26, 2016 Posted September 26, 2016 By blocking him is giving him a reaction, so he is going to keep doing it. I agree completely ignore him....he will get bored and move on. 3
Miss Peach Posted September 26, 2016 Posted September 26, 2016 I would report him to the moderators. I had a guy do stuff like that and he even sent some really crazy messages. The moderators blocked him from being able to have a profile there. 1
Author soph-walker Posted September 26, 2016 Author Posted September 26, 2016 I would report him to the moderators. I had a guy do stuff like that and he even sent some really crazy messages. The moderators blocked him from being able to have a profile there. Thanks, I'd not even thought about this!! I have contacted them on the respective sites and fingers crossed he'all be blocked for good!!
LookAtThisPOst Posted September 26, 2016 Posted September 26, 2016 Hello LoveShackers. Having my online dating profiles viewed and liked by a guy who snubbed me some months ago after a few dates. It's winding me up a little...do I leave it be or send a 'stop being creepy' message? He's only VIEWED your profile, he's not contacting nor harassing you. Paranoid much?
Author soph-walker Posted September 26, 2016 Author Posted September 26, 2016 He's only VIEWED your profile, he's not contacting nor harassing you. Paranoid much? I don't see how it's something you'd label as paranoid. He's been 'interacting' with my profiles for the best part of a year. I find it mildly harassing as this is a guy who made such a song and dance about how he wasn't interested in me. I would advise against using terms like 'paranoid', for your future reference.
strawberryshortstack Posted September 26, 2016 Posted September 26, 2016 He's only VIEWED your profile, he's not contacting nor harassing you. Paranoid much? If he's creating new profiles and doing the same thing with each of them, it reaches beyond paranoia. 1
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